To not be appreciative of mil getting baby Christmas day pj's?

[alesha123445]

Okay so this is my babies first Christmas and I've been so excited to pick her Christmas day outfit and pj's. The mil has told me shes giving her some pjs on Christmas eve for her to wake up in and wear through the day.
If the mil got them to be worn for through out December id be very appreciative, some family members already have done that and i LOVE that.
But the fact she's got it for Christmas day feels more like a baby steal, I don't feel appreciative. Album?

Oh wow auto correct was pretty bad 🤣

You don't have to let your baby wear them. Buy what you would like your baby to wear.

Pop it on, take a pic. "Whoops, baby's been sick!" Change. Easy 😁

She wants her to wear pyjamas through the day?! No!!
As above, what a shame, she’s been sick.

How old is your baby? Mine went through at least 2 outfits a day (normally more) when he was small. I would have been glad of a spare.

Just say you've got them for Xmas day but baby can wear the other ones on Boxing day. Simples.

that's a good idea, ill still buy a set for the lo but and just put her in the ones she got for some pics 😁 x

Sorry but this is a non issue. They're pyjamas!

Explosive poo works equally well, especially for the bottoms. otherwise she might start moaning that you didnt mix and match or something.

Pop the pyjamas on your baby for photos and oh dear, poonami / sick. Such a shame because they're really lovely m.i.l.

All sorted with a message, I wasn't sure what to say and do before so thanks for the suggestions

Sorry but this is a non issue. They're pyjamas!

well obviously not to you 🤔 because it's not your Baby your MIL or your first chance to buy Christmas Eve PJ's for your baby ... 🙄

If you haven't bought any yet, and you like them, I'd just use them (and save your money) then dress your baby in the outfit you have bought for the day.

I’m sure she hasn’t done it to wind you up to the point you need to make a thread about it.

They’re only pyjamas.

Single day clothing, just no. Fast fashion for babies, who will not notice or care.

Okay I am going to be biased here and say YABU only because my dad's thing was to buy the grandkids pj's for Christmas every year he did the full set matching Slippers dressing gowns etc and they always got to open them Xmas eve and wear them and they rly looked forward to it and always knew what Granda got them and got to say which character they wanted that year. He never really knew what to get them so was just his thing. We lost my lovely dad two years ago and now there is no one to buy the Christmas pj's. We of course buy our own kids now but for the kids it was such a tradition and something theyl always remember of their Granda. Maybe this will be the same for yoy and embrace it? You get to pick the outfit

When did Christmas pyjamas become a thing

That’s nice and thoughtful of her.

Wtf are Christmas pyjamas?

Sounds so sweet. I think there's room for more than one Xmas day outfit - she can have a costume change at lunchtime! You'll be taking loads of photos, may as well do a few cute outfits!

it will some become the norm folks, but it's op'schoice and she's not hurting anyone else so why the sneering ?

I’d just let her. Is it her first grandchild? You can change them out over the day.
Be glad you have a gran who cares. Looking at here, there seems to be loads who don’t give a hoot.
Would it have mattered less if it was your mother rather than your DP’s?

Gosh get over it you’ll have to pick your battles!

🙄fucking hell

I never knew Christmas pjs for babies was a thing...dear god.

You sound ridiculous pfb, this isn't some special first moment. It's just pyjamas. What a non issue.