To ask what were you thinking last time you had sex?

[BraveGoldie]

..... that you might not have said out loud to your partner?

I really love sex with my partner, but despite this some strange things pop into my head while doing the deed. Last time specifically:

"Oooh I wonder if the cereal dispenser I ordered will arrive tomorrow...... "

What about you?

About 2 hours ago ... I'll get him to finish on my breasts, the easier for clean up, and I'll be able to go for a 10k run and be back for lunch

More often than not: hurry up I’m bored.

“I hope the middle pole for the strawberry planter arrives tomorrow”

So I was thinking about poles just not the one I should of been...

Placemarking

3 years celibate here so not much to contribute.

Why am I doing this, I hate you and I hate sex.

Now single and celibate as an asexual should be.

I generally don't have time to think as it's over so quickly 😭

Why has he lost his erection again 😩

That’s because he had probably had sex the night before with his girlfriend that I didn’t know about 😢

Also now 3 years celibate and not sure I’ll ever be that bothered to have sex again

@VainAbigail

More often than not: hurry up I’m bored.

God how depressing.

I noticed a spider on the ceiling last time and then had to focus VERY HARD to get back in the zone.

8 months ago. "Well, this crap. He's trying to hard." Took all the enjoyment out of it. Little did I know it would be the last time. I miss sex..

@VainAbigail

More often than not: hurry up I’m bored.

Why are men convinced that longer (when it comes to time!) is better? I've had this conversation with DP who early on would apologise if it didn't go on for ages. My opinion is that if I'm done I no longer care and he can be as quick as he likes

Last time I briefly wondered what time it was as I was going out and needed to start getting ready

I wonder if this will happen again sometime. FWB 18 months ago!

Why are men convinced that longer (when it comes to time!) is better?

Because popular culture tells them that.

Dear God no wonder so many men have affairs.
Been together 30 years and have never drifted out of the moment, I've obviously got a good one.
Why are you with them when you are so sexually dissatisfied? Why not find someone you are sexually compatible with.

This isn’t right, leave me alone, I wish I wasn’t here

"I can't keep doing this, I doubt you're actually enjoying it but if I don't the fallout will be worse."

Not going to happen again!

Earlier this morning, after the kids went cycling, I jumped back into bed next to DH. Thinking ... what to do give him a great time? He's really a fantastic DH and Dad :)

I don't think about anything else but the sex and how good it feels!

I wasn’t really capable of forming a coherent thought

Well I'm pregnant so:
"oh my gosh that feels so good... I wonder what the baby thinks is happening right now?"

I fucking hate this but I hate how you make life miserable if you don't get what you want.

Honestly I was trying to work out what was wrong with me that despite enjoying sex, the idea of sex not just with dp, but any man coming anywhere near me, just well I can't bare it.

Don't know where it came from or what started it.

Yesterday for the second time, I hope we can do it again later! We didn't because we were tired!

At the end: I'm ready but will it shoot out? or dribble out? LOL

Afterwards: It great to be able to please my DH like this :) Now he'll go and make me a delicious coffee!

@Poppyismyfavourite

Well I'm pregnant so: "oh my gosh that feels so good... I wonder what the baby thinks is happening right now?"

Snap! Lol

Oh I wish I'd got batteries so I could use that on myself at the same time. That turns on DH sssooooo much