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To be shocked that DP has never had a jam sandwich before?

168 replies

PawPatrolMakesMeDrink · 20/06/2020 14:42

DP and myself took DS to the park this morning, having a little picnic watching the ducks. Jam sarnies and fruit. Lovely.
DP comes out with the statement that he’s never, ever had a jam sandwich before and how nice it was, just like jam on toast.
He’s 35! How has he got to this stage in life and not had a jam sarnie?!

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PurpleDaisies · 20/06/2020 14:44

Weirdo!
I haven’t had a jam sandwich in ages. Really fancy one now.

cologne4711 · 20/06/2020 14:45

I may have had a jam sandwich as a child but I cannot ever remember eating one. I'm not keen on soggy bread (or toast) with jam.

However, what I have had is bread with plain Philadelphia cheese on it (other brands available) and then put jam on too. It tastes like cheesecake. Yummy.

mouse70 · 20/06/2020 14:46

I made a Golden Syrup sandwich yesterday!!!!!

WitchQueenofDarkness · 20/06/2020 14:47

I don't think I've ever had on either. All my sandwiches have been savoury.

Mycatsmellsbad · 20/06/2020 14:47

I’ve never had a jam sandwich, or jam on toast. To me it’s mixing sweet and savoury which is just all kinds of wrong.

Cauterize · 20/06/2020 14:48

I think he's very fortunate to have never been subjected to a jam sandwich.

My mum made them all the time when I was a kid and I hated them. I don't think I could stomach it now. Maybe if somebody paid me to eat one?

Rumtopf · 20/06/2020 14:49

Jam, honey and golden syrup sandwiches were my Nanna's idea of a picnic or a packed lunch for school. Honey is my favourite as the edges go a bit crunchy after a while.

Dh had never had a fish finger sandwich before we got together. Philistine.

Waxonwaxoff0 · 20/06/2020 14:49

I've never had one. I don't like jam, it's too sickly.

GrumpyHoonMain · 20/06/2020 14:49

I haven’t had them either. We used to get butter sandwiches

PawPatrolMakesMeDrink · 20/06/2020 14:50

Well now I’m just sat here agog at the jam sarnie haters!

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Grunpy · 20/06/2020 14:52

Ooh,golden syrup sandwiches.
These were emergency rations that my dad carried in hip pocket on walks he took us on as kids.
We'd get to a certain stage in the walk,sit on a rock and eat the slightly squashed sandwiches.
I like the idea of jam but just don't eat it except sparingly on a scone(before the cream)

PotholeParadise · 20/06/2020 14:53

I don't think my mother approved of jam. The sugar, I think. I had my first ever jam sandwich when she took me to stay with one particular new boyfriend who was very keen on strawberry jam.

WhatWouldDominicDo · 20/06/2020 14:53

Another one who's never had a jam sandwich. Sounds horrible - sandwiches should be savoury things. I've never had Nutella with bread either fwiw.

elQuintoConyo · 20/06/2020 14:53

Yeuk jam sandwiches.

Crisp sandwich - now you're talking! Just introduced 47yo DH to them, he says they're his nemesis!

A favourite when I was a teen, bored alone for hours, was Coco pop and sultana sandwiches, with shite white bread.

Sidge · 20/06/2020 14:54

My brother loved lemon curd sandwiches when we were little. Can you even get that still??!

I like jam on toast. Haven’t had a jam buttie for ages though.

TheWernethWife · 20/06/2020 14:54

"Jam Sandwich" - how posh is that.

Jam Butty up here in the north, love them. Got to be good jam though.

Ontheboardwalk · 20/06/2020 14:55

Not a fan of jam sandwiches but really want a golden syrup butty now!

OneForMeToo · 20/06/2020 14:57

No never had one also never had Yorkshire puddings as a desert.

PawPatrolMakesMeDrink · 20/06/2020 14:58

@TheWernethWife I’m from a council estate in Hull, nothing posh about me Grin

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QueSera · 20/06/2020 15:01

I don't think I have ever had one, and I'm much older than your DP.
Jam on toast, yes (normally with peanut butter though). But not between 2 slices of bread. Doesn't seem appealing. I will probably go my entire life without ever having one.

BlankTimes · 20/06/2020 15:01

We often had the following sandwich fillings when I was a kid

Jam

Sultanas

Mashed banana and sugar

Heinz sandwich spread

Tomato Sauce

Brown sauce

Salad cream

Crisps

orangejuicer · 20/06/2020 15:02

My DP had apparently never had a toastie before until I made him one a few weeks ago. He's 42.

AdaColeman · 20/06/2020 15:15

I’d never heard of fish finger sandwiches till I joined MN, now I’ve tried one, but I’m not converted!

My Ex used to have condensed milk sandwiches, which I thought was really weird.

On the other hand, when I was a child, my Mother used to sprinkle hundreds and thousands on buttered bread as a treat!

happymummy12345 · 20/06/2020 15:18

I love them. Got to be strawberry jam for me and on white bread. Really want one now

TheThingWithFeathers · 20/06/2020 15:21

I've never had a jam sandwich. I like jam on toast but for some reason I think it would be weird on soft bread!