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Meghan Markle story time

325 replies

Mummylovesbags · 06/05/2020 17:44

Posting here for the traffic and so this is read by a diverse pool of people - not just royal fans...

I really like Meghan Markle and I admire her for carving her own way and being a feminist in her choices. I like that she waited after the birth for photos and spoke up about the metoo movement etc.

As much as I like Duchess of Cambridge, I don’t think she does anything to advance women. She seems to do what is expected of her which people love but which I find awful. She has a responsibility as a role model for young women but yet Seems to be the perfect, painfully thin, upper class wife that does as she is told, rarely speaks and is every sexist, wealthy, white man’s dream.

I’m a little lost as to why people seem to be pro Kate and anti Meghan. Is it because Kate is what all middle class women aspire to be in England. Doing as one is told ? Being a softly spoken English lady that wears tweed and frolics in the country while her husband is on a boys ski trip etc etc

Have we all forgot about feminism ?

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LaurieMarlow · 06/05/2020 22:24

other royals have specifically called out the use of aeroplanes like H&M did?

What was that, I don’t know what you’re taking about?

Wills lectured people about over population with his three kids at home.

TheMagiciansMewTwo · 06/05/2020 22:24

I love the school of feminism that says if you declare yourself a feminist you can make as many misogynist comments as you like and that focuses solely on putting women against each other. Remind me again was it Weinstein or incels that popularised it? Hmm

OoooImBlindedByTheLight · 06/05/2020 22:25

@LaurieMarlow Harry was like the village idiot previously. He got drunk, acted a twat and generally was ridiculously. He was called out about it in the press though.
He seems to be acting very “woke” now, but not following his own rhetoric which is irritating.

Russellbrandshair · 06/05/2020 22:26

You lost me and your feminist credentials by putting Kate down to praise Meghan

Why do people have to constantly pitch the two women against each other it is tiresome

Exactly. Not very feminist at all really 😳

OoooImBlindedByTheLight · 06/05/2020 22:27

Weren’t they about to be rumbled by the Sun (or similar?) Thats certainly what I heard

Where did you hear that? In one of those awful rags?

LaurieMarlow · 06/05/2020 22:28

He was called out about it in the press though.

He was given such an easy ride by the press on his juvenile idiocy.

He’s grown up a helluva lot since meeting Meghan, but the abuse has skyrocketed.

OoooImBlindedByTheLight · 06/05/2020 22:29

@LaurieMarlow yes William did do that, he also got torn apart in the press and social media for doing just that. That’s exactly my point, ALL of the royals get a lot of bad press.
It’s frustrating that people focus on the dislike of Meghan as if it’s a race issue

OoooImBlindedByTheLight · 06/05/2020 22:30

The abuse of Harry has skyrocketed yes, but that’s because he’s decided to put himself at the political forefront, not because he married a mixed race woman ffs

TooLittleTooLate80 · 06/05/2020 22:30

Why doesn't your title relate in any way, shape or form to your post? YABU just for that.

MouthBreathingRage · 06/05/2020 22:30

they couldn’t possibly be annoyed that their behaviour has been seen has a huge snub to the uk and the senior royals.

Before she got pregnant and then left the royal family (see it’s called Megxit, again all her fault), people were still being negative about her, picking every little thing she did apart. How do you explain this attitude towards her before she was even a royal and expected to follow certain traditions and protocols? This has been going on for years, it cannot be blamed on very recent events.

LaurieMarlow · 06/05/2020 22:31

he also got torn apart in the press and social media for doing just that

The difference in the scale of the criticism is mind blowing and you know it.

The word ‘hypocrite’ is thrown around all the time with H&M, but barely ever mentioned in relation to Wills and Charles who it applies at least as much to.

MrSheenandMe · 06/05/2020 22:32

Nasty thread - bitchy about women while pretending to be a feminist, And very ill-informed

OoooImBlindedByTheLight · 06/05/2020 22:33

People are allowed to dislike Meghan (and Harry) without being racist.

The press are scum who hound people in the public eye to a disgusting degree. They drive celebrities to depression, addiction, suicide.

That is in no doubt.

However, it’s ok to not like Harry and Meghan based on their behaviour and how they present themselves, disliking them doesn’t make you a racist.

That is my only point with this.

LaurieMarlow · 06/05/2020 22:33

but that’s because he’s decided to put himself at the political forefront

You don’t think dressing as a nazi and throwing around racist terms were a lot worse than what he’s criticised for these days? Really?

OoooImBlindedByTheLight · 06/05/2020 22:35

@LaurieMarlow are you actually off your tits? He was VILIFIED for that! He had SO much negative press when he did that!
Or are you conveniently twisting or forgetting that fact?!!

MouthBreathingRage · 06/05/2020 22:37

@OoooImBlindedByTheLight, tell me again this isn’t about race and background. Tell me the media hasn’t been enabling negativity feeling about Meghan since before she officially joined the Royal family.

www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/5010683/meghan-markle-kate-middleton-differences/

LaurieMarlow · 06/05/2020 22:38

are you actually off your tits?

Hmm

He was VILIFIED for that! He had SO much negative press when he did that

A lot of it (particularly from the tabloids now villifying him) had a distinct whiff of ‘our cheeky Harry, not the PC type, naughty boy’ tone about it.

Kljnmw3459 · 06/05/2020 22:38

I like kate, Meghan, William and harry. I wish them all the best.

Viviennemary · 06/05/2020 22:39

She knew the rules. You get a life of undreamed of luxury and adulation. In return you stand on the steps of the hospital where you have given birth and wave. You release a few photos of your child and give details about the christening and God parents. But oh no for this would be Hollywood diva it was asking too much. Sorry I have no sympathy for her and think she is an entitled brat.

OoooImBlindedByTheLight · 06/05/2020 22:39

I said not everyone likes her but not because they’re racist.
Honestly I think it’s because she’s American, not mixed race.

OoooImBlindedByTheLight · 06/05/2020 22:41

@LaurieMarlow if you say so.
He was crucified in the press for the nazi costume and you know he was.
Everyone was up in arms about it, he had to issue a public apology

LaurieMarlow · 06/05/2020 22:41

But oh no for this would be Hollywood diva it was asking too much. Sorry I have no sympathy for her and think she is an entitled brat.

Weren’t you the one accusing her of ‘hogging the limelight’ by reading the story to Archie. 🤦‍♀️

Forgive me, but that batshittery shot your credibility to pieces.

LaurieMarlow · 06/05/2020 22:42

Honestly I think it’s because she’s American, not mixed race.

I think the heady cocktail of mixed race, American and Actress blew middle England’s head entirely.

Viviennemary · 06/05/2020 22:45

The point is she didn't want the publicity she had as a royal. But now she has left the royal family she will be cashing in on all the publicity she can get. Thats the point.

MouthBreathingRage · 06/05/2020 22:45

Honestly I think it’s because she’s American, not mixed race.

Ah, xenophobia is an acceptable excuse but people are definitely not racist, that’s a low blow. Ok.

But oh no for this would be Hollywood diva it was asking too much

Only on MN are you a diva for not want to be dressed up like an emotionless baby making machine and perform for the public just after giving birth because a few lunatics feel they own you. Why do you need to know who the godparents are, what possible excitement could that bring you? Are your own lives really that boring you must berate a woman for not sharing some utterly pointless information?

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