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Spoons then forks then knives

204 replies

B0bbin · 18/04/2020 23:51

In your cutlery drawer, do you have spoons on the left, then forks, then knives? That makes sense to me because when you lay them out on the table it's forks on left and knives on the right. My DH puts them away (wrong) as knives on left then forks then spoons, just because he says it sounds right- when you say, 'knives, forks, spoons.'
I'm fully aware of the current world problems which are affecting us all terribly. This is still important😉

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ShowOfHands · 18/04/2020 23:52

Your DH is right.

B0bbin · 18/04/2020 23:53

Oh shit

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MiddlesexGirl · 18/04/2020 23:54

Gosh - your way does seem odd sorry. Knives forks spoons here too.

Muddlingalongalone · 18/04/2020 23:55

My dad does it like you.
Forks, knives, spoons left to right in mine. I think because forks go in left hand and knife in right hand.
It drove me nuts when he unpacked my dishwasher

B0bbin · 18/04/2020 23:55

Also, the knife is the man, the fork is the woman and the spoon is the child. Discuss.

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Pigeonpresent · 18/04/2020 23:55

LTB

Sereyus · 18/04/2020 23:56

Knives, forks spoons. Sharp knives at the side.

I am known to sort peoples cutlery drawers out and put their tea, coffee, sugar pots in order too Blush

dementedpixie · 18/04/2020 23:57

Ours didn't go left to right, they go front to back and it's (from the front) - tea spoons, forks, knives, spoons

Amigoingmad29weeks · 18/04/2020 23:57

I do forks, knives, spoons. Same as you, fork goes on your left therefore on left in drawer. When I'm laying the table I'll grab the direct number of forks in my left hand and the knives and spoons in my right as only my right hand is dexterous enough to swap them one handed as i put out each place.

B0bbin · 18/04/2020 23:57

When an item of cutlery was dropped in our house growing up, my mum would use this to predict who was coming round- e.g. dropped a knife, "oooh, that means a man's coming round," yep

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HaveeeeYouMetTed · 18/04/2020 23:58

Spoons, forks then knives.
My cutlery tray has a different size slot on the right side & the knives only seem to fit in there.

ouch321 · 18/04/2020 23:58

Knives, forks then spoons - L - R
Dessert comes after the main.

aWeaponCalledtheWord · 18/04/2020 23:59

spoons forks knives.

i have diagnosed OCD and have a tic where i have to name the cutlery as i put it away. i am sometimes to be found chuntering away knife knife fork spoon fork little spoon spoon knife etc.

drives me mental. but yes, OP, you have your cutlery drawer arranged correctly.

PorpentiaScamander · 18/04/2020 23:59

Your DH is right

TheMotherofAllDilemmas · 18/04/2020 23:59

I have never thought about it, but I just checked my drawer and I also have (left to right) knives, forks and spoons with sharp knives to the right.

MrsEricBana · 19/04/2020 00:00

We have spoons, forks, knives left to right too because of the left hand, right hand thing.

Fifthtimelucky · 19/04/2020 00:00

I do exactly the same as @Amigoingmad29weeks

MumW · 19/04/2020 00:00

Knives, forks, spoons - anything else is just weird (looking at you BIL)

TeaAndBrie · 19/04/2020 00:01

Same as you :)

CaffeineInfusion · 19/04/2020 00:01

Knife fork spoon.

My mum's cutlery drawer is different. Aka wrong. And yes, we do helpfully rearrange for each other, 😁

Thehogfatherstolemycurry · 19/04/2020 00:03

Knives, forks, spoons but I agree knives are men and talks are women. Teaspoons along the bottom are children though, dessert and soupspoons are cuddling lovers.

Ginkypig · 19/04/2020 00:04

Knife fork spoon

I do have an odd thing though that when I put them away I can't do it in a mix t has to be all of one then all of another then all of another

DollyDally · 19/04/2020 00:05

Knives, forks, spoons, tea spoons at bottom. Randoms (garlic press, corkscrew) in same drawer to the right of cutlery tray.

But I constantly forget correct hands for cutlery - maybe that’s why!

Orangesandbananas · 19/04/2020 00:05

Knives, forks, spoons, then teaspoons.

I'd never even considered the relationship between cutlery draw lay out and laying the table!

Ginkypig · 19/04/2020 00:06

Why do so many of us seemingly unconsciously use that order?