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To think Racists have won this round.

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Temp123999 · 08/01/2020 19:00

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The only Black/mixed race member of the royal family has been bullied and insulted to the point that she's made the decision to step back.

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Temp123999 · 08/01/2020 19:04

Wrong link
Anyway Harry and Meghan stepping back from prominence.

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CharlottesPleb · 08/01/2020 19:06

It's funny watching people wish so hard, so very hard, for everyone to hate Meghan because it turns out she is mixed race and the whole country is secretly racist, while most Brits fail to notice, or care, or have anything negative to say about that, at all.

...the same old thing on yet another issue. Hmm

Sparklingbrook · 08/01/2020 19:07

Can we just have one thread? Grin

Temp123999 · 08/01/2020 19:08

I never said everyone in Britain was racist but you can't deny she's been subjected to lots of abuse a lot of it racist.

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StarbucksSmarterSister · 08/01/2020 19:12

Race is definitely an element for some, as is the fact that she is American (ridiculous comparisons with Wallis Simpson for example).

However, remember how horrible people used to be about Kate? Waity Katy, snide comments about how her mother used to be an air hostess, etc. etc. Now she's the blue eyed girl because Meghan is the target.

I don't blame them personally. I hope they'll be happy.

LochJessMonster · 08/01/2020 19:17

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MrsBrentford · 08/01/2020 19:17

I think the difference with Kate is that she just kept her mouth shut and kept quiet and kind of endeared herself slowly over a long time.

There seems to be the expectation Erin the Sussexes that she would immediately be a National Treasure.

It doesn’t work like that.

MrsBrentford · 08/01/2020 19:17

*from

PrettyPity · 08/01/2020 19:18

Kate is Kate. Meghan didn't need to be like her or like anyone.

Stronger2020 · 08/01/2020 19:19

Yawwwn

MolyHolyGuacamole · 08/01/2020 19:20

Yes, and as a person of similar ethnicity to Meghan, I have to say I'm relieved. I hate seeing all of the hate she receives, knowing that the basis of attack is purely her race. Good for them, I hope they can find peace.

BonnyConnie · 08/01/2020 19:21

I would imagine that being American is more of a trigger for your average Brit than her race.

MrsBrentford · 08/01/2020 19:21

I don’t think it is her race.

The American Blind Gossip sites are less than generous about her too.

TaxFool · 08/01/2020 19:22

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LaurieFairyCake · 08/01/2020 19:24

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Peterspotter · 08/01/2020 19:25

I don’t think it’s to do with race. Look what they did to Diana. It was unprecedented what the press did to her and which ultimately caused her death.

I’ve just been on another meg thread sticking up for her so I’m not a hater!

Aragog · 08/01/2020 19:27

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Newmetoday · 08/01/2020 19:28

I don’t like her because she’s controlling Harry. There are red flags all over that relationship. Fuck all to do with her race

MilkTrayLimeBarrel · 08/01/2020 19:29

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Womenwotlunch · 08/01/2020 19:31

Controlling Harry ?????!!
FFS

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colouringinpro · 08/01/2020 19:34

Race is definitely a big part. I was in my local charity shop recently over-hearing one volunteer telling another how Princess Diana must be turning in her grave since Harry married that "black" woman. HmmShockSad

Plumbus · 08/01/2020 19:35

I think people are just sick and tired of their preachy crap. Colour/race doesn't come into it.

When you're working your arse off struggling to make ends meet, last thing you need is super privileged rich people telling you how to live your life.

wheresmymojo · 08/01/2020 19:35

Part of it is because she's black, partly because she's American and honestly I think a lot of it is to do with her being female and having an opinion.

Kate gets away with it because she keeps her mouth shut, doesn't express any opinions, etc.

Meghan is a liberal feminist and not afraid to say so and many people find that difficult.

Hence the comments about her 'controlling' Harry and similar.

CharlottesPleb · 08/01/2020 19:35

Yes, her being American I can see being more of an issue if there was one. Much as we are all transatlantic kin there are some funny ideas coming from the North American corner of the world and the UK does like royals to be a bit stable and sensible (as far as anyone can tell).

As for her ethnicity? Broadly speaking, being a racist of that sort is considered morally low in the UK. If you are seeing it a lot I would tend to pay less attention to what the dregs of society think, and certainly don't assume most people care.

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