Or is the Toby Carvery?

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Me,parents and ds 5 went out for an early dinner,we were asked for our order then told that all salads and hummus were off.
Dm is vegetarian and was really looking forward to one of the salads but she sucked it up and ordered a cheese sandwich,all good..so far.Server then came back and told me I couldn't have lettuce on my sandwich because of the salad situation,ok then.
Finally my sandwich came,I had ordered Turkey stuffing bacon and mayo.It came with no stuffing,no mayo but with bbq sauce which I dont like so I sent it back resulting in me eating alone as everyone else had finished.
The server came over and said they weren't going to charge me for my meal I replied well good because I didn't feel like paying for it,we've been messed about and you didn't get my order right! Am I an entitled bitch or is my reaction reasonable seeing as there was a lot off menu and then they got it wrong?

@DH love it! I haven't had my arse handed to me on here for years!

Waitress get paid (poorly) to feel with customers.

Deal with

What a thoroughly unpleasant view and thankfully, not shared by the majority.

've done my trip advisor review I'm good thanks

badly disappointed by the lack of veggie option in a toby carvery and fuming, raging, raning to have been offered the meal free and their apology.

That should put other people off

@Hefzi I'll take my mother wherever she wants to go,we chose wrongly.Thats all I can say.

@DH I went for the less dramatic version

Could you link to your review, OP, so we can all enjoy it?!

@Goldmandra exactly

Waitresses get paid to deal with customers but only the very worst sort of people thinks that means they are entitled to be rude to them.
Some people are showing their true colours.

As they say in Indiana Jones, "(You) choose unwisely!" - fair play to you, though, OP, for admitting it

@Incognital nothing to enjoy unless you get your kicks from trip advisor which if you do u could start another thread about.

You weren't U or rude until you said what you did to the server at the end. What was the point of saying it? It strikes me that your point was simply to humiliate someone, yes they are the face of the restaurant, and part of the job is to take the complaints when things go wrong and try within the bounds of what can physically be done, to put it right. That was done, and your meal removed from the bill because it was wrong. It sounds to me like you felt the need to have the upper hand, regardless of the fact what went wrong was addressed.
And your attitude shows through your posts here too with all the Hun and can I buy you a drink comments.
There was no need to say what you did, other than to make someone else feel crap.

@Hefzi I agree

As a vegetarian, I bloody love a Toby carvery, they do a fab veggie roast. But it's a Toby carvery, it's the cheap and easy option, YABU to expect anything other than very basic service and much attention paid to anything on the menu that isn't the carvery.

You're right that you shouldn't have had to pay for your meal, but you do sound like you're more upset about this than you need to be.

I absolutely fancy a carvery now

Sounds like shit service. Good you didn't need to pay but tbh Toby Carvery is shite anyway.

@Grumpymug I genuinely didn't want to make anyone feel like shit but I definitely had to say something on this occasion.

Yabu but you know that don’t you op?

No need to be unnecessarily mean to the wait staff.

What did your momma say?

@Shesabelter thanks.Are you northern by any chance?

Well you said it op. Good for you. Made a min wage servers day a little bit more shit.

Go you.

Perhaps her mother brought her up to be rude to ter people.

@Pinkyponkcustard she thought I was being reasonable believe it or not,shed usually be the first one to have a go if thought I was being out of order.

How incredibly obnoxious.

@ilovesooty what utter bollocks

I have never been to a Toby Carvery (are they regional?) but I think I would have pretty low expectations tbh.

No excuse for being rude to the server. Rarely their fault, so be dignified if you want to complain.

@Bluntness I've explained myself a few times on here