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AIBU?

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To ask this personal question?.....

345 replies

pppers · 03/02/2019 20:52

To ask how many people you've slept with?

I had DS young and have only slept with 1 other person other than DP.
A friend made a light hearted comment about do I not feel like I've missed out, and I feel bad to say it resonated with me.

AIBU to feel sad that 2 might be my lifetime number??

OP posts:
JustTwoMoreSecs · 03/02/2019 20:59

7

Mamabird3 · 03/02/2019 21:01

10, a mixture of men and women..

Dhalandchips · 03/02/2019 21:02

40-odd

SquigglySquaw · 03/02/2019 21:03

I stopped counting. When I try to remember, I get to between 30-40. I wish it was 1.

starabara · 03/02/2019 21:03

More than a dozen and less than 50.

Men and women, and I genuinely don’t know how many precisely.

I adore my husband and my marriage, but if there’s one thing that makes me feel, sad maybe, is the knowledge that there will never be sex with anyone else again.

kitkatsky · 03/02/2019 21:03

4

Weatherwax · 03/02/2019 21:04
SteveMcGarrettsBudgieSmugglers · 03/02/2019 21:05

no idea but probably over 50, no regrets at all, Im a consenting adult and it was a lot of fun, always careful and consensual

Enta · 03/02/2019 21:06

Men and women - 7.

VanillaSauce · 03/02/2019 21:06

14

Jsmith99 · 03/02/2019 21:08

No idea. When I was young, free and single at university, I was young, free and very single Blush.

dancingqueen345 · 03/02/2019 21:09

I've stopped counting but easily 100+. It's been fun 😂

CherryPavlova · 03/02/2019 21:09

I really don’t understand why one would ask this question of others. If you aren’t happy that you’ve slept with lots, it’s already a bit late to reset your moral compass. Not much you can do about the past. If you’re worried about relative inexperience, you can’t change the past.
All one can do is decide what is right for you.

GeorgieTheGorgeousGoat · 03/02/2019 21:09

Only my husband.

NoArmaniNoPunani · 03/02/2019 21:10

Less than 100 but not far off

Checkthemeaning · 03/02/2019 21:10
  1. I'm 37 this year. I wish it was less to be honest - I regret A LOT of those
Burlea · 03/02/2019 21:10

One

PlainSpeakingStraightTalking · 03/02/2019 21:11

I dont understand what you achieve by knowing how many people I, or the posters above or below me have slept with. How does this impact on you?

I find these questions creepy TBH

DorothyZbornak · 03/02/2019 21:11

Not as many as I'd like.

PickettBowtruckles · 03/02/2019 21:11
  1. DH and I got together in our mid teens. 10 years later and our DD, I’m very happy he’s the only one.
yogafailure · 03/02/2019 21:11

Just my husband - we met as teenagers

chilied · 03/02/2019 21:11

I am at 3, and that will probably be it for me. Not sad about it. Actually, regret sleeping with my ex 🤷‍♀️

FerretyFemale · 03/02/2019 21:12

2, and no, I don't feel I've missed out.

Mmmhmmokdear · 03/02/2019 21:12

About 12 or 13 I think. I'm mid 30s. Met DH early 20s.

Babyboysarenowbig · 03/02/2019 21:12

About 28 🤷🏻‍♀️

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