To ask this personal question?.....

[pppers]

To ask how many people you've slept with?

I had DS young and have only slept with 1 other person other than DP.
A friend made a light hearted comment about do I not feel like I've missed out, and I feel bad to say it resonated with me.

AIBU to feel sad that 2 might be my lifetime number??

Only 1- my dh and absolutely no regrets. My dh had a very colourful past when we met (I was 20 and he was 24) and can’t remember his number but he has always said that I am his first love. I did/ do get the benefit of his being an experienced lover- sex has always been amazing (which may be relevant as I have never wondered if it would be better elsewhere).

One, my husband. Been with him since I was fifteen and he was seventeen. We are both happy with it.

1. I don't feel like I've missed out, though.

1, DH but before we were married

Enough to know I’m happy where I am .

I made the most of my single years in my 20’s and I’m glad I did - if I hadn’t I think I may wonder - especially as DH was also a bit of a tart in his single days! Having said that, I think ONS and random sex is overrated and not half as much fun in reality as it is in the movies.

If you’re happy with your partner, be grateful for that. It’s alot more than many people ever manage to have

13.... guess it was my lucky number because DH was number 13.

6 of those I regret... 🙄

Just dh.

4

Around 50-60, same one for last 9 years 😴

Was engaged to someone till about 15 months ago, before we broke up it was 3 then had a mad few months
Very happy with the current Mr lastqueen so hopefully that number doesn’t go up for a while at least

1, been with DP since I was 16 😂 did some other stuff with my bf before him though 🙈

Don’t remember but seems like the last one I slept with a few years ago will be the last ine I slept with and that makes me sad. (I’m old!)
I wish my final performance had been more memorable

6

4 1/2.

41/2 @FuckBrussel? I was just going to post 6 and 2 halves!

8 Including partner.

I thought that was a lot at 33 (been with DH since 24), but apparently not

I've lost count

10 I think, including a few ONS at university.

Been with DP nearly 9 years and omg I've never had it so good - and it is still fresh and I fancy his pants off!

About 12 which I think is an alright amount I'm mid 40s

1-my husband

@Justkeep, yeah... the 1/2 was young (as was I), and while the spirit was willing, the flesh was desperately over eager. Multiple times. It was very unfulfilling.

40ish... a few were crap (but it’s what you make of them) while others were amazing! A mixture of ons and boyfriends.
Single now and really missing the shagging.

I’m 33 and just 2. I have no desire to sleep around and still wouldn’t even if me and DH split up

As long as you're satisfied with your sex life with your DP you're not missing out on anything.