Two Thousand Sexual Partners

[brasty]

AIBU to judge a man who has had sex with 2,000 people? I normally do not judge the number of people someone has sex with, but this is way over the top.

"Your age minus the age you were when you first had sex less 3x the number of LTRs."

Oh dear, I have some catching up to do. On second thoughts I won't. Been married to the same guy for 36 years. I don't want to start all over again.

I think you have the wrong idea completely about Princess Diana Butchy grin

Noooo, I think I have totally the right idea.

Andy McDowell's character still managed to outshag her though.

Oh you're giving us an exact number?

I WOULD judge himself if he had unprotected sex. I would also judge him if he wasn't up front about having had a lot of partners. Better for a woman to know who she's sleeping with. If he went round telling people at work I'd think yuck, keep it to yourself. I'd get out the industrial steam cleaner and set it to high and blast him if he got too close. Joking. Obviously, or am I.

I reckon he must have double counted some.

As per usual, a brasty thread has descended into posters snipping at each other over a goady subject, whilst the op themselves has done a (temporary) flounce....

I am here

I WOULD judge himself if he had unprotected sex.

You Irish?

How many do you think if is, BatteredBread

I dont think there is a number. As is obvious by my previous posts, surely?

Or did you just ask the question to pillory responders?

I asked because I would like to know what the magic number is and the reasons for that.

Oh I know you’re around brasty, that’s not my issue. Your need to start threads that will obviously just descend into two-sided arguments for days on end is my issue.

How on earth does he know? Surely he would have lost count after he first couple of hundred?

Your age minus the age you were when you first had sex less 3x the number of LTRs

About right.

I don't think having a large amount of sexual partners is good in the long run for a person. I believe the body has memory, it'll just leave you unsettled/confused in life.

I am sure he is lying. And it is strange to see someone keeping track of it. If its true, the person must be a psycho to count it or someone who likes to live in inflated ego.

I think most of it was with himself

I wouldn't judge no.

Certainly not from a moral perspective.

From a clinical point of view it is quite risky however.

brasty

Are you studying the history of sex?
I think these things are interesting, it doesn't mean the OP is being goady, just for starting a conversation.

The equivalent of a cold shower maybe? Must.suppress.urges

I agree with you Brasty.

2000 people is so far out of my experience I can't envisage how someone could have sex with that many people, or indeed keep a record of having had sex with that many people. I haven't slept with 200 or 20 or even 10 people.

I am not in a relationship. I don't enjoy sex. I would be very happy to never have sex again. I really don't see the point. I don't want to be in a relationship in the future because I would be expected to have sex with them.

On the other hand, having done a bit of reading, I think I am probably asexual, and just 'put up with it' for the sake of previous partners because I was in love with them.

A friend of mine has slept with about that many women - mainly because from the age of 18 he worked as a holiday rep and slept with 5 or so women a week- for 12 years! I don’t judge him as he always used a condom and the women were always willing.

His winky must be worn out

My husband and I were virgins when we got together at 16, so have only been with each other (now late 30's). I am sure plenty of people would 'judge' that too as weird! I don't mind, each to their own!

I don't think I've even reached 1% of that! 2000 times is way too exaggerated?!