Two Thousand Sexual Partners

[brasty]

AIBU to judge a man who has had sex with 2,000 people? I normally do not judge the number of people someone has sex with, but this is way over the top.

@brasty this is the second thread in the last couple of days that involves you asking if you're unreasonable for judging someone on their sexual behaviour.

The answer is the same, not only is it peculiar to take such a vested interest in the use of someone's genitals, it is also unreasonable to judge adults on legal, consensual behaviour

Lemmy's dead isn't he and he corrected the figure?

Okay most of MN thinks IBU. I will keep my judgements to myself then.

Do you wish you can let your hair down and just hump for the sake of it sometimes?

Okay most of MN thinks IBU. I will keep my judgements to myself then.

And once again you’ve got the wrong end of the stick.

In what way?

A man of 40 who is straight is a commitment-phobe and a abuser of women.

Why is the man automatically an abuser of women if he has that many sexual partners?

Depends on the timescale. 2000 in a week is pushing it a bit. 2000 over a couple of years is fairly standard nowadays

But why have you started this thread? Who do you know personally who has done this?

I would be slightly judgey but also very admiring of his time management abilities at the same time.

In what way?

Well for starters, 37ish posts is not ‘most of mumsnet’.

Journo. Blates.

That's the equivalent of 1 person every day for 5 and a half years. Or 2 people each weekend for 38 years.

I call bullshit

2000 over a couple of years is fairly standard nowadays

Given that the average is 6 or 7 partners over a lifetime, no it isn't.

brasty i agree with you. Thats why theres so many sti's and increased cervical cancer in women is because of having multiple sexual partners, not that i would judge anyone to their face. But the world is becoming too liberal. I read a buzzfeed article that asked people to share their kinkiest things they had done. One was incest sleeping with father and son together. When someone pointed out that was devient and disgusting they were called bigots and judgemental and really condesceneded. So you wont get anywhere online sadly.

It's no one else business but that persons.
It doesnt matter if someone has slept with 2 or 2000 people. (Consensually)
It doesnt matter if they are gay or an escort or just love sex. It doesnt matter if they've fucked men, women or men & women together.
It is none of your business - even if you are the next person having sex with them. Thier current sexual health should be your concern - their sexual past is not.
Yes.
YABU.

It's high but as long as it's all been consensual, it's no one's business but his.
And I second what other people have said. This is at least the second thread you've started about other people's consensual sexual choices.
Maybe you need to have a good think about why you need to pay so much attention to other people's sex lives.

Surely you would lose count.

I agree with the poster who said it's only the telling everyone about it that's odd.

I haven't slept with a high number myself but to each their own

Yeah has he got a list of them? Lol

He is obviously a terrible shag as presimably none went back for more hence the 2000

AIBU to judge a man who has had sex with 2,000 people?

Julio Iglesias claimed to have slept with over 3,000 women.

It put my poor RC mother (a superfan) right off. Guantanamera never sounded quite the same to her after that.

Hpv is undetectable in sti tests. Ergo if i sleep with someone who gives me hpv then it is my business. People can do what they want but then other people are free to judge them.

I’m finding it odd that it seems to be ok for gay men but not for straight... why is that?

But yes, for the PP to ask, there are gay clubs that basically have sex cupboards in them. Men can go and have sex with multiple men in one night, and then back the next night... it can rack up pretty quickly.
I don’t think many are keeping exact tally’s but you can make an educated guess close to a number.

Certainly not all men are like this though, many (most?) are most happy in just regular old monogamous long term relationships. Before anyone makes sweeping statements about the gay community.

2000 over a couple of years is fairly standard nowadays

Utter bollox.