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Two Thousand Sexual Partners

192 replies

brasty · 25/11/2017 16:19

AIBU to judge a man who has had sex with 2,000 people? I normally do not judge the number of people someone has sex with, but this is way over the top.

OP posts:
Battleax · 25/11/2017 17:19

YANBU to keep your distance. Bleurgh.

Georges Simenon made a similar claim, I was reading the other day. It worked out at a new woman every other day since he was 13. Gross.

LoniceraJaponica · 25/11/2017 17:20

Wasn't it 10,000?

PearlySlug · 25/11/2017 17:21

Its grim and gross. People can do what they want but i would never sleep with someone who had slept around, (i never have) thats probably me being judgy but i think it grim

Mollie85 · 25/11/2017 17:21

I’d be hugely surprised if “2000 over a couple of years is fairly standard”...

Considering this would amount to 83 sexual partners a month... Confused

However- as pp’s have said, if it’s consensual and it’s safe, there is no issue here that I can see.

It personally wouldn’t be for me (dear God the chafing alone would start a bush fire - pun intended) but to each one’s own...

Wine
SantasLittleMonkeyButler · 25/11/2017 17:22

20 a night? Shock

Don’t bits get sore?

TabbyMack · 25/11/2017 17:23

People can do what they want but then other people are free to judge them

Moral judgement is an effective a way to curb people’s rights as the law is.

“People can do what they want”* is where your sentence should have ended. But, because of your own ignorant predjudices and assumption that you are so important that other’s should live the way you do, you continued.

Judge away, but shut the fuck up about it. Not your business or your place to try and influence the private life of adults.

And that goes for the OP who seems rather over-invested in other people’s sex lives. Try a magic wand or rabbit or something, OP, if you feel you’re not getting your kicks.

*Legal/consensual etc.

Battleax · 25/11/2017 17:24

Simenon Lon? Yes, 10,000,over 61 years. I just checked. How germy is that?

NameChanger22 · 25/11/2017 17:25

I judge. I think it's disgusting.

Mamabear4180 · 25/11/2017 17:25

YANBU

ButchyRestingFace · 25/11/2017 17:28

People can do what they want but i would never sleep with someone who had slept around, (i never have)

How do you know you haven't unless you're a virgin?

You only "know" what your sexual partner choses to tell you. And very few people, I think, would be prepared to state they had slept with 2,000 partners, particularly to a potential partner they think may judge them for it.

Battleax · 25/11/2017 17:28

The think is, Tab, others are only at liberty to react if the person in question is broadcasting the figure in the first place. So in most cases, part of the reaction will be to the boast.

BatteredBreadedOrSouthernFried · 25/11/2017 17:28

How many sexual partners in a lifetime is acceptable? What is the limit before it becomes disgusting or immoral?

BatteredBreadedOrSouthernFried · 25/11/2017 17:29

(Asking for a friend) Grin

Stillwishihadabs · 25/11/2017 17:30

Your age minus the age you were when you first had sex less 3x the number of LTRs.

Superlandlady · 25/11/2017 17:31

Shirley et al

I self-identify as a judge (just like men "self-identify" as a woman).

That gives me the RIGHT to judge whoever I like.

And, just like the them, I deny your right to argue, deny, or disagree.

Remember, #nodebate

ButchyRestingFace · 25/11/2017 17:32

How many sexual partners in a lifetime is acceptable? What is the limit before it becomes disgusting or immoral?

More than Princess Diana.

Less than Andy McDowell in Four Weddings and a Funeral.

Battleax · 25/11/2017 17:32

Your age minus the age you were when you first had sex less 3x the number of LTRs.

BatteredBreadedOrSouthernFried · 25/11/2017 17:33

Your age minus the age you were when you first had sex less 3x the number of LTRs.

Blush thanks. I’ll let my friend know.

Battleax · 25/11/2017 17:34

I think you have the wrong idea completely about Princess Diana Butchy Grin

PortiaCastis · 25/11/2017 17:34

Does he have a clicker on his cock keeping count of imagined conquests ?

ButchyRestingFace · 25/11/2017 17:34

I self-identify as a judge (just like men "self-identify" as a woman).

That gives me the RIGHT to judge whoever I like.

Clearly NO fucking thread is safe from being trans-railed these days. Xmas Confused

ShirleyPhallus · 25/11/2017 17:34

I self-identify as a judge (just like men "self-identify" as a woman).

That gives me the RIGHT to judge whoever I like.

And, just like the them, I deny your right to argue, deny, or disagree.

Remember, #nodebate

Genuinely the weirdest thing I’ve ever read on mumsnet Hmm

BatteredBreadedOrSouthernFried · 25/11/2017 17:35

Does he have a clicker on his cock keeping count of imagined conquests

😂

Battleax · 25/11/2017 17:35

#nodebate shirley

RancidOldHag · 25/11/2017 17:35

How many sexual partners in a lifetime is acceptable? What is the limit before it becomes disgusting or immoral?

No general answer is possible.

How many do you think if is, BatteredBread ? (Or did you just ask the question to pillory responders?)

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