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To suddenly find DH really annoying and smelly

215 replies

halloweenpumpkincametotea · 26/10/2017 20:50

Don't know what's happened. I love him. We've had a great relationship for the last 10 years. But for the last week I can barely look at him. He chews loudly, farts, is sweaty, is very very boring, always moans and looks so miserable.

What the hell is going on???? Why am i suddenly seeing all this stuff and not the gorgeous man I love? I just want to get back to how I used to feel about him up til last week! He hasn't changed - pretty sure his chewing style etc.. have always been the same, but suddenly it's jut all really annoying me and turning me off :(

Has this happened to anyone else? Will I click back to my normal self soon?

Help! (I am genuinely actually a bit stressed about this. We have dc's and I do love him)

OP posts:
QuiteLikely5 · 26/10/2017 20:51

Has your head been turned by a colleague/friend etc

Santawontbelong · 26/10/2017 20:51

Ten year reality check?

JonSnowsWhore · 26/10/2017 20:51

Honeymoon phase is over I do believe!

PurplePillowCase · 26/10/2017 20:52

are you pregnant?

BamburyFuriou3 · 26/10/2017 20:52

Pregnant?

confusedandemployed · 26/10/2017 20:52

Are you pregnant?

jaffajiffy · 26/10/2017 20:52

Might you be pregnant?

iklboo · 26/10/2017 20:52

You're not heading for peri menopausal age are you? I can barely stand to be in the same room as DH some days.

BamburyFuriou3 · 26/10/2017 20:53

To add, DH always became unbearable to me as a first pregnancy sign. Followed a week later by throwing up every evening....

MayFayner · 26/10/2017 20:53

I thought pregnant too.

JonSnowsWhore · 26/10/2017 20:53

7 year itch. Although I tend to get it after around 3 years Halloween Grin

SandSnakeofDorne · 26/10/2017 20:53

Has he always been sweaty and smelly? Because it's pretty normal not to find that attractive.

Fitzsimmons · 26/10/2017 20:54

Pregnant.

Liara · 26/10/2017 20:54

Are you pg again? Or possibly menopausal?

Hormones can play havoc with this kind of thing.

I never had pmt before the dc, then after the dc for a few years I had it so bad dh and the dc called it 'hyde week' - I found them all awful to be around and everything they did pissed me off.

Now it's passed and I like them all the time again!

halloweenpumpkincametotea · 26/10/2017 20:55

Oh god! So many 'are you pregnant's?!!!

I don't think so!!!

But I have been having hot flushes and tidying like crazy - maybe I'm hitting menopause! (Although time of month a bit late - so the pregnant question nagging me now!!!!)

OP posts:
2017SoFarSoGood · 26/10/2017 20:55

JonSnow that did make me laugh.

Rose covered glasses need cleaned?

BrutusMcDogface · 26/10/2017 20:55

Oooh yes I came on here to ask if you're pregnant, and have been beaten by many posters! Grin

HemanOrSheRa · 26/10/2017 20:55

You're not heading for peri menopausal age are you? I can barely stand to be in the same room as DH some days. You beat me to it ilkboo

Ttbb · 26/10/2017 20:56

I get really turned off when I'm pissed off by things my DH has done.

ItsLikeRainOnYourWeddingDay · 26/10/2017 20:56

Preg test pronto !

Doubletrouble42 · 26/10/2017 20:56

joining in with are you pregnant? I was repelled by my oh when I was pregnant . And I really love him!

LindyHemming · 26/10/2017 20:56

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stellacat123 · 26/10/2017 20:58

Go get a preg test now & let us know!

Branleuse · 26/10/2017 20:59

pre-menstrual? I have a tracker app on my phone that gives me a weeks warning of my period, so i know not to dump dp

MrBloomsLeftVeg · 26/10/2017 21:00

Also thought pregnant!