To suddenly find DH really annoying and smelly

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Don't know what's happened. I love him. We've had a great relationship for the last 10 years. But for the last week I can barely look at him. He chews loudly, farts, is sweaty, is very very boring, always moans and looks so miserable.

What the hell is going on???? Why am i suddenly seeing all this stuff and not the gorgeous man I love? I just want to get back to how I used to feel about him up til last week! He hasn't changed - pretty sure his chewing style etc.. have always been the same, but suddenly it's jut all really annoying me and turning me off :(

Has this happened to anyone else? Will I click back to my normal self soon?

Help! (I am genuinely actually a bit stressed about this. We have dc's and I do love him)

How are you generally, OP? If I miss taking my anti-depressants for a couple of days, I find my kind, funny, handsome and clever DP profoundly fucking irritating and start wondering if I should LTB or just kill him.

Have you done a test 😝

My money’s on peri menopause.

I'm the exact opposite. The minute I got a BFP my DH can do no wrong for 9 months. As soon as the baby is out... it's not so good. For a few years...

Are you pg?

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Placemarking. I need to know if you're pregnant or not!

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Place Mark!!

Come on OP! We're in need of an update!

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Congratulations, OP!

I doubt it’s a baby. It’ll be the peri menopause. I was exactly the same as the Op.

Be nice to know for sure though

When can you start perimenopause? I'm 34. Is it too early?

I guess some people start in their 30’s but my guess it is most likely PMT causing such symptoms. For me I was mid 40’s when the hot flushes, irregular periods, feeling like I could murder someone, couldn’t put a sentence together etc etc all started.

Bad PMT sounds a likely cause. Or maybe you just need a hobby. Mine irritates me sometimes and its usually PMT.

Placemarking as I really want you to be pregnant

Oh my god I only found this thread 4 minutes ago and I’m already ridiculously invested! Are you pregnant or not, OP?!

My vote is pms, once a month, for a day or 2, I am annoyed by every small sound and every smell

I have a heightened sense of smell (and nausea) approaching my period. It could just be PMS.

Alternatively your DH might be a dirty, smelly wanker and you have seen the light. I strongly suspect this is the case.

So glad I've read this.
I went right off exh when pg. Neber met anyone who had the same thing with their dh so thought it was just me.

POAS yet op?

Far too invested? Has he stopped being annoying and / or are you prefers? To be fair, I looked like I'd had a boob job way before my sense of smell went weird but then I was having twins and my hormones went legit mental.

This is not a placemark. I came on here to say it might not be pregnancy or perimenopause it might be.. umm... errrr..

hmm...

Yeah, ok, it's a placemark.

You may have depression. Awfully easy to focus on negatives and find it almost impossible to find positive view on life. Check website for symptoms.

I know I'm late but I second the pregnancy test! Went totally off my DH with both pregnancies! Came back to loving his ass pretty soon after birth! Hormones can do crazy things. You clearly love him, don't panic! Love doesn't die in a week! Something's going on and it's probably evil hormones. X