To suddenly find DH really annoying and smelly

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Don't know what's happened. I love him. We've had a great relationship for the last 10 years. But for the last week I can barely look at him. He chews loudly, farts, is sweaty, is very very boring, always moans and looks so miserable.

What the hell is going on???? Why am i suddenly seeing all this stuff and not the gorgeous man I love? I just want to get back to how I used to feel about him up til last week! He hasn't changed - pretty sure his chewing style etc.. have always been the same, but suddenly it's jut all really annoying me and turning me off :(

Has this happened to anyone else? Will I click back to my normal self soon?

Help! (I am genuinely actually a bit stressed about this. We have dc's and I do love him)

Branleuse!!! You made me laugh!!! I may need to get that app!!!

I thought I was going to nail it by saying 'pregnant'. Seems I am not alone!!!

I do the reverse branleuse

I know my period is due when I start thinking about how I will juggle childcare etc on my own

Pregnant

Pregnant.

My first thoughts? Pregnant.

But now I see everyone else had the same first thought!

May you’re too tame. I know it’s due when I’m looking up my flight tickets to leave the lot of them to live on a beach somewhere

OMG you are so right about the premenopausal thing!

If in the next couple of years you read about a woman killing her partner due to his sinus related sniffing and snoring.....I'm your woman.

Oh god, you've got to POAS and tell us what it says!

Gah, thought pregnant too!
Menopause?
Sobriety?

Another one whose first thought was PREGNANT

Pregnancy.

Poas!

Having an affair? Sorry OP. Just when you get your head turned your H suddenly seems like a real oaf...

🤰🏻 is my guess too

I was going to say pregnant Hahahaha.

POAS

I would say you are pregnant ....?

My first though was pregnancy too.

I could barely look at my dh for the first couple of months of both of my pregnancies.

Stressed at work?

I could've quite happily murdered my DH at the beginning of my perimenopause. It was not my finest time though I will never admit that to him 😳😝

Yeah I'm guessing Peri menopause. The exact same thing happened to me.

My DH lost a tooth last month & all I felt was pity & love...

This month I want to punch the rest out & I've found his snoring louder.

I've also had a couple of hot flush deep sweat moments.

I suspect the biggest change is me rather than him suddenly becoming repulsive after 18 years together!

Oh cry I need to google premenopause don't I? (Before I accuse him of all sorts)

Or rather than you being pregnant / peri, he might just be smelly and gross :-). If it helps though I had to kindly tell dh to eat more quietly recently. He did too. I am of that age (peri) but he was definitely loud! It wasn't just me.

It could just be one of those marital 'blips' where suddenly everything about them is irritating. DH and I have been married 30+ years and occasionally I'll have a period where he can do nothing right as far as I'm concerned. No rhyme or reason. It just happens and then just as quickly it's over. If it's that, it'll fade, give it some time.

OR is it possible that there have been underlying problems in your marriage that have simmered long enough and are now coming to a boil?

I've never heard of early pregnancy turning someone off their DH. I never had that happen to me.