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To suddenly find DH really annoying and smelly

215 replies

halloweenpumpkincametotea · 26/10/2017 20:50

Don't know what's happened. I love him. We've had a great relationship for the last 10 years. But for the last week I can barely look at him. He chews loudly, farts, is sweaty, is very very boring, always moans and looks so miserable.

What the hell is going on???? Why am i suddenly seeing all this stuff and not the gorgeous man I love? I just want to get back to how I used to feel about him up til last week! He hasn't changed - pretty sure his chewing style etc.. have always been the same, but suddenly it's jut all really annoying me and turning me off :(

Has this happened to anyone else? Will I click back to my normal self soon?

Help! (I am genuinely actually a bit stressed about this. We have dc's and I do love him)

OP posts:
Fianceechickie · 28/10/2017 20:33

I sometimes (mainly in the post ovulation hormonal plummet) am vile to my DH. It’s as if I have this voice in my head that I try to ignore but it makes me pick a fight with him. All the things that annoy the hell out of me, surface and come out. Causes a row, my anxiety and insomnia and night sweat kicks in. Pretty sure it’s perimenopause...

OFuckShitAndBollocks · 28/10/2017 20:54

Blatant place mark being over invested!

goingslightlycrazy · 28/10/2017 20:57

You have won my 1st blatant placemark Halo

CallMeDollFace · 28/10/2017 21:05

Surprise baby or menopause? I can’t work out which I’d rather... Grin

FusionChefGeoff · 28/10/2017 21:07

Oh no when I saw this back in Active I was hoping for a pregnancy test result!!

If it helps, I’m 100% not pregnant but certainly find my DH pretty offputting sometimes

Whereareyougoingmouse · 28/10/2017 21:46

Definitely pregnant!

silverychicken · 28/10/2017 22:03

A lovely friend complained about similar with her husband, she now has a girlfriend ..and no husband 😀 .
But I suspected the pregnancy thing for you too ..

lightcola · 28/10/2017 22:07

Do we have an update yet? Or is this 8 pages of pregnancy speculation?

CosmicSpider · 28/10/2017 22:30

I too am hormonal, and actually am taking steps to avoid being in the same room as my DH. The way he sipped his coffee gave me the rage this morning. He hasn't done anything wrong that I know of, I can drag up some bollocks if I feel the need to though. Just to justify myself. Which is terrible and makes me an awful person.

Hormones are bastards.

DontDrinkDontSmoke · 28/10/2017 22:37

Pre menstrual symptoms

SeamusMacDubh · 28/10/2017 22:40

Argh! RTFT and now need to know POAS results!!

picklemepopcorn · 28/10/2017 22:48

OP has got fed up of her smelly husband and moved into a cabin in the middle of a forest where she can smell only pine trees, and adopted a load of cats. Oh no, wait, that's me. Sorry.

haveagobletofblood · 28/10/2017 23:43

@Dunzo I hated DP til the minute the baby come out. Then I was OBSESSED with him for weeks. The sun shone out of his arsehole for ages after the birth!

User02 · 29/10/2017 00:05

I vote for pregnancy in the peri menopausal period. It does happen.

BriechonCheese · 29/10/2017 00:37

Ooh come on OP!

Lj8893 · 29/10/2017 00:48

Are you kidding? I came on here to say pregnant. Realised it's a few days old so though ah yes I shall read the whole thread to see if I'm right.

No update op? Really!!!

Lj8893 · 29/10/2017 00:48

That post wasent meant to be so aggressive, it was meant in jest but I realise that could be misconstrued in text Blush

dontbesillyhenry · 29/10/2017 00:58

Whhhhaaat? Come onnnnn OP

Abbylee · 29/10/2017 04:22

Menopause? Thank you! I was so disappointed in my guilty self. I didn't know that menopause removed and smashed my rose colored love glasses!

keepcalmandfuckon · 29/10/2017 04:53

I was reading this thread last night, and my husband put his foot out and affectionately touched my leg. I felt the rage. Looked at my phone and realised I’m 3 days away from period. I feel better knowing I’m not the only one who gets like this Grin

MrsMotherHen · 29/10/2017 04:58

Shamless placemark

Supermagicsmile · 29/10/2017 05:09

Hope all is ok op :).

lolalotta · 29/10/2017 05:40

Following!

mysecret321 · 29/10/2017 06:02

Following :)

worrierandwine · 29/10/2017 06:23

Sorry but another placemark Blush

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