Women on here

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Being reasonably new to this site/chat app ...
Having read a few threads in the last couple of days and coming across a lot of unnecessary comments .. AIBU to ask why it seems a lot of women on here seem very quick to throw nasty, horrible insults at other women on here?
I know people are asking for opinions, but, not character assassinations...!
Shouldn't us mums/women stick together and help eachother with advice instead of throwing horrible, bitchy, comments around?

There is evidence of support too but it doesn't take away the damage done by the shaming and ridiculing. It's not black and white, both can exist.

I love a NC fail :)

THIS THREAD AGAIN ARRRRGHHHHHHHHHHH

I love a NC fail

Me too

This is essentially a thread about a thread so is against MN rules...

That was an epic name change fail.

Found it
Fabulous NC fail.

Love it Just shows yet again that the goady fuckers who post these 'MN is sooooooooo mean' whiny threads just aren't very bright

I fucking love MN. Found it after the other debatey place was closed by me. Laughed like a drain at Classics then pootled around. It's been nine years

And anyone who says it's inherently bitchy hasn't been party to the immense amounts of supportive threads. Else they wouldn't say it. So there.

OP started this thread to moan that we were all sooooooo mean because we didn't immediately agree she was so special that the whole world should agree with her.
Maybe she should return to CBeebies and leave this site yo the Grown Ups.

What was 'the other debatey' place, Shakey? Was there one??
And what did you do to close it down?

Godda love a good NC fail

Oh thats funny, poor OP...not

Debates section on Bounty. And I may, or may not have researched who owned it (indirectly after a fair bit of Googling) and sent a lengthy complaint. Not before trying my utmost to have issues resolved by the actual people running it. I was fair and warned them I'd be doing it. Twas following them not taking action against a vile troll, bannings left right and centre, being ignored by members and general twattishness. I received a lovely email back from the owner then a week later a grovelly phone call from UK bosses. They revamped the site and sadly, debates disappeared.

Suddenly it all becomes clear......

TAAT indeed.

Bounty had a debate section?! Well, I never!

OP, Mumsnet posters are not fools and do not care for someone attempting to treat them as such.

Pacific Oh aye, twas great fun.

I still computer is the equivalent of naice ham

Bloody hell, you could have told me it was 15 pages long before the 'reveal'! I thought you were on about the NC fail on page 2 until I realised that no-one had noticed that one!

No wait, that was someone else. Ignore me.

Completely agree OP, I'm fairly new to site & I am astounded at some comments I've seen. Nasty & completely unnecessary.

Enough sock puppetry me thinks?

Oh do we now have a ....

xpost Buzzard.

And they exercise this in RL and speak as bluntly to peoples faces as they do here, yes?

Well I can't speak for everyone here but I'm pretty representative of how I am in RL. Hence I NC fairly frequently because the info I share about myself here, combined with my attitude, end up being outing after a while. In fact, one of the few differences between online me and RL me is that RL me isn't above telling a person to fuck off or giving a negative opinion of them personally. So online me is actually a bit nicer than RL me