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To think my husband is a complete c***?

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Whatiswrongwithmykid · 24/06/2016 19:55

He had a work lunch today. He has said all along that it's a lunch so therefore he will be back this evening. We have kids including a non sleeping baby. He has already been out the past 2 nights. He knows I'm exhausted and at the end of my tether.

I dumped the baby on him at 6.30 am this morning as I just couldn't take it any longer and needed sleep. I told him before he left that I needed him home tonight.

You can guess where this is going can't you! I text him at 5.30 to see if he was finished. He eventually replied an hour later to say he needed " a pass" but wouldn't be too late. Not heard a word since. I'm fuming! I have no help at all, except him. So I've not had a break or any help with the kids since Tuesday night. I'm shattered and I face another night of being up every hour.

OP posts:
jennasmith951 · 01/07/2016 13:08

Sounds like he is so selfish!

RoryGilmore · 01/07/2016 13:15

Oh my god, he sounds exactly like my ex. Exactly the same with wanting to live his life, staying in hotels, the attitude.

Look up your tax credits, work out maintenance, and visit a solicitor. It's a terrible situation to be in but trust in the fact that once you've got all the figures and you know what you're doing, it'll look much more feasible

HeartsTrumpDiamonds · 01/07/2016 13:21

What an absolute asshole.

Whatiswrongwithmykid · 01/07/2016 19:13

Well he has agreed to move out! Let's hope he is serious.
He still hasn't come home as he is " staying out of my way". Kids haven't seen him since Wednesday.

OP posts:
AShadowLurkingInTheShadows · 01/07/2016 19:32

What a cunt,

bag up his stuff leave it on the doorstep. Lock the door, grab a take away and start filing for divorce!

Can't be that fucking concerned you'd snap Angry I'm so annoyed for you op

deathtoheadlice · 01/07/2016 19:35

Just make sure he takes care of the dc every other weekend or whatever works for you!

Fourfifthsof · 01/07/2016 19:55

Christ OP - your DH is a massive bellend. Flowers

Horehound · 01/07/2016 20:01

Cue the tears and begging when he realises he will now actually have to give up half his time to look after his kids. Don't fall for it op, don't let him back!

Atenco · 01/07/2016 20:21

Make sure you have lots of RL support, OP, at this difficult time.

mathanxiety · 02/07/2016 00:39

Pack his stuff. Don't allow him a reason to return.

ConkersDontScareSpiders · 02/07/2016 08:32

Hope you are ok OP...

rainbowstardrops · 02/07/2016 09:14

I'm another one who'd be packing his bags and dumping them in the garden.
He really is a prize arse Angry

ChubbyMummy12 · 03/07/2016 19:40

FlowersChocolate be strong op, he's an Arse, you don't need him. Hope your ok

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