My DS is due to start nursery in a few weeks, he'll be just days over 3 and isn't even close to be toilet trained... Nursery has a dry policy and although I've already broached this with the nursery (that he isn't responding to training despite me trying for months now) they have made it clear he needs to be close to dry.
I am at my wits end and am super stressed about it trying so hard not to let DS feel my stress but I'd hate for anyone to think I haven't bothered trying to train him.
Obviously this is different as it's nursery and my child is 3 BUT I feel for anyone with an older child with genuine continence issues. Yes ideally kids would be long trained and yes the onus should be on the parents but sometimes kids just don't play ball.... I fear I am going to have a 6 year old in nappies at this rate!! DS is NT by the way, he is just a stubborn little boy (or actually he is a little boy who just isn't ready to toilet train right now )