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AIBU to think women over 40 should not wear denim jackets (yes you Ferne Britten)

173 replies

CreamolaFoamless · 30/04/2012 11:49

No one should wear denim jackets but a 40+ women wearing one is just so wrong!

And on tv!

If your cold put a cardigan on

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MinnieBar · 30/04/2012 11:53

YABU

(and it's you're)

Pandemoniaa · 30/04/2012 11:53

A cardigan? Now who is BU?

imnotmymum · 30/04/2012 11:53

I hate denim jackets as well and never get wearing a jacket indoors thing anyway.

noddyholder · 30/04/2012 11:53

I am 46 and wear one but if anyone compared me to FB I'd shoot myself

MissFaversham · 30/04/2012 11:54

I'm 49 and I have a white one and a demin one that I wear in the summer with lovely long print dresses so ner Grin

TheFeministsWife · 30/04/2012 11:54

Actually I think YABU. My mum is 55, a size 10 and looks great in her various denim jackets, (some of which she's had for over 20 years and still fit her Envy). I on the other hand at 33 and a size 18 look fucking awful in a denim jacket.

pinkdelight · 30/04/2012 11:57

YABU. And so random. What on earth is wrong with it?

Equally randomly, I actually have a phobia of cardigans (or rather the things that fasten them, which shall remain nameless) and will be in hoodies, denim jackets etc for as long as I live. The recent vogue for young people to wear cardigans leaves me totally nauseous. Suppose I could equally have posted a thread saying no one (man or woman) under 40 should wear cardigans, but even I'm not that weird. Get a grip!

CreamolaFoamless · 30/04/2012 11:58

denim is for jeans ...leg area

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BusinessTrills · 30/04/2012 11:58

YABU

Women over 40 can wear what they damn well please, as long as it's not indecent.

imnotmymum · 30/04/2012 11:59

It is just a individual thing I guess a like/dislike my Mum bought a denim jacket and I nearly died and refuse to be seen with her in it !

RoxyRobin · 30/04/2012 12:01

Hee hee! I'm 56 and wore a denim jacket over my long summer dress last year. I also have long hair! However, I do have some consideration for the general public: I would never, ever, ever wear a sleeveless top and expose my bingo-wings (wibble-wobble).

UnimaginitiveDadThemedUsername · 30/04/2012 12:02

The only fashion rule for denim is to avoid the full jacket/jeans denim combo at all costs. Unless you are the Marlboro Man.

mummymeister · 30/04/2012 12:03

I stopped wearing all denim at 45. i didnt want to be one of those people desparately clinging to my yoof by still insisting on wearing jeans beyond this age. this also goes for bright hair colour - pink or green streaks. again feel i am just a bit beyond this. however, dont do cardis will leave that until i am 60+

galletti · 30/04/2012 12:03

OOh, a cardi - Now I know where I have been going wrong - beige or burgundy?

YABU

imnotmymum · 30/04/2012 12:06

I have tonnes of cardis in a variety of colours and styles. Love my cardis.

NotMostPeople · 30/04/2012 12:09

Yes you're absolutely right once a woman reaches 40 she shouldn't attempt to wear anything other than a nice pair of elasticated trousers from M&S and a drip dry blouse.

Sod off

Kladdkaka · 30/04/2012 12:10

I've just turned 40. Can someone please give me a list of what is now acceptable for me to wear? [confused old gimmer]

galletti · 30/04/2012 12:11

Don't forget the cardi NotMost.

Gigondas · 30/04/2012 12:11

Yabu - and Surely the double denim rule doesn't apply If you are in status quo.

HeathRobinson · 30/04/2012 12:11

YABU. Ha ha, got to be a joke!

FerrisBueller1972 · 30/04/2012 12:12

Women over 40? I think you can jog on. Since when did you get promoted to Chief of the Fashion Police?

YABU

CreamolaFoamless · 30/04/2012 12:15

lol not a joke .......it's just I saw ferne britten on matthew wrights aftershow and got really annoyed at her jacket!!!!!!!

She is inside , and should not be wearing a coat , least alone a denim jacket

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bigbluebus · 30/04/2012 12:16

What do you wear to keep warm then, if you don't wear cardis? Just interested. I am 48 so probably allowed to wear them anyway !
Have got a denim jacket in wardrobe, but haven't worn it for a long time. (DS 15, would probably say "mutton dressed as lamb" if I wore it!
Agree, keeping Bingo wings covered is far more important!

Aboutlastnight · 30/04/2012 12:18

So many rules once you get to 40.

Will have to read up on them, don't want to embarrass myself by wearing a denim jacket or trainers or something...

SunRaysthruClouds · 30/04/2012 12:21

Methinks OP is under 40 and will discover the folly of her sweeping judgement about oldies over 40 in a few years time