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AIBU to think women over 40 should not wear denim jackets (yes you Ferne Britten)

173 replies

CreamolaFoamless · 30/04/2012 11:49

No one should wear denim jackets but a 40+ women wearing one is just so wrong!

And on tv!

If your cold put a cardigan on

OP posts:
frumpet · 30/04/2012 13:17

I think its a ridiculous statement op , Fern Britton possibly should avoid the denim jacket , but i know of several svelte over 40's who look fabulous in their's.
mrsdevere when i am slim i shall be channelling your style ladyGrin

WomanlyWoman · 30/04/2012 13:21

I'm 43 and will wear what I like thanks. I don't care what anyone else wears, all that matters is the kind of person they are, so bog off and stop being so judgemental.

OhDoAdmitMrsDeVere · 30/04/2012 13:22

This thread has reminded me of my mum.

She thinks turning up your collar instantly makes you look cool and rebellious.

An upturned collar on a denim jacket is the absolute end

Grin
cocolepew · 30/04/2012 13:24

I look lovely in my denim jacket, and I'm old (43)

IShallWearMidnight · 30/04/2012 13:26

so is it only the slim who can wear denim jackets then? I quite fancied one this year to go with maxi dresses/long skirts, but am an 18 on my top half thanks to Bravissimo. All the ones I've seen around have breast pockets which I'm a bit dubious of on me.

CrispyCod · 30/04/2012 13:27

Oh God, I might as well go and shoot myself if I can't wear certain clothes after 40. My life is over.

YABU

You can wear most things at any age as long as you style them properly.

GobHoblin · 30/04/2012 13:29

Oh dear i was so looking forward to my 40th in 10 days time. Now i must spend the day shopping for cardigans. Damn you!

akaemmafrost · 30/04/2012 13:29

Well, Im over 40 and am thinner and fitter than I have ever been, in the 8 stone margin and run over 60 km a week. I am wearing the clothes now that I didn't have the confidence to wear in my twenties and thirties when I was in the 10/11 stone area and why on earth shouldn't I?

I wore a gold sequin, rather short dress last time I went out, I wouldn't have dared wear it before, I looked bloody great if I do say so myself and I pulled a 23 year old. So there!

Lueji · 30/04/2012 13:31

I look good in everything darling and over 40. U mind your business!!

HH

I don't actually have a denim jacket, but this thread is making me want to buy one. :o

I do have skinny jeans. Is that allowed?
And miniskirts. And bikinis.

My sis thinks that women over 50, possibly less, should not wear minis.
If your legs are fine, why not?

sugarice · 30/04/2012 13:32

IShallWearMidnight- ASOS are selling a Mango denim jacket with smallish breast pockets.

cuteboots · 30/04/2012 13:35

I think its down to personal taste and styling, i.e Id wear mine with a maxi dress rather than a hoody and trainers. Personal choice really

LittleJennyRobyn · 30/04/2012 13:38

i have been wearing denim jackets since i was about 12. I am now 37 so the rules are that i have to stop wearing them when i hit 40??

Ha ha!!!!!

frankie4 · 30/04/2012 13:39

I am wearing leggings, ankle boots, flowery tunic dress and a denim jacket today. I am 40 and I think I look ok in this. A cardigan with a dress can look either a bit too smart or a bit frumpy, but a denim jacket looks just right.

Kristina2 · 30/04/2012 13:39

Im 50. Ive never wornn a denim jacket because theu are not my style.

But posts like your make me want to rush out and buy one

Have you considered that its not age that is the issue here?

imnotmymum · 30/04/2012 13:39

Agree cuteboots I just hate denim jackets full stop whether 4, 40 or 84.

IShallWearMidnight · 30/04/2012 13:40

sugarice - think I've found the one you mean, but sadly the XXL size is a 14 Shock. In what universe does 14 = XXL? Will have to brave Bluewater I think.

sugarice · 30/04/2012 13:41

Lueji I like a mini in the Winter with opaque tights and chunky boots but my legs aren't up to exposure in the summer anymore, damn cellulite. Sad

BIWIWhoMustBeObeyed · 30/04/2012 13:42

I hate, hate, hate the casual ageism that peppers so many posts on MN. A place which should be supportive of other women.

YABVU

I echo MrsDeVere's sentiments - wear what the fuck you like when you like it with whatever the fuck else you want to wear

sugarice · 30/04/2012 13:45

IShallWearMidnight Bugger! sizing can be such a pain in the arse I agree.

SpanglesAreYum · 30/04/2012 13:50

Just wanted to butt in and say I bleeding hate Fern Britten and the way she poises her mouth when she speaks winds me up no end. The rest of you can wear what you like, but SHE better be careful, because she might piss me off more...

CreamolaFoamless · 30/04/2012 13:56

It's not an ageism thread BIWIWhoMustBeObybed it's more of a 'Denim Jackets , no just no type of thread

Maybe I should have put it style & fashion Grin

OP posts:
TheRhubarb · 30/04/2012 14:07

Why don't you just click the off switch on your TV?

Or is that too simple?

MarysBeard · 30/04/2012 14:09

I really don't understand why denim jackets would be associated with youthfulness. I associate them with ageing rockers. Who often look quite good in them, TBF.

galletti · 30/04/2012 14:10

That's not quite how it came over in your title though OP is it? I think it may have been the 'women over 40' bit that suggests ageism, perhaps?

belfaft1981 · 30/04/2012 14:12

YABU and judmental. Nothing wrong in wearing a denim jacket when over 40.

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