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AIBU to think women over 40 should not wear denim jackets (yes you Ferne Britten)

173 replies

CreamolaFoamless · 30/04/2012 11:49

No one should wear denim jackets but a 40+ women wearing one is just so wrong!

And on tv!

If your cold put a cardigan on

OP posts:
BIWIWhoMustBeObeyed · 30/04/2012 14:13

How on earth is your OP:

"No one should wear denim jackets but a 40+ women wearing one is just so wrong!"

not an ageist statement?

Lueji · 30/04/2012 14:16

I'd also like to know what happens when we blow those 40 candles that makes it SO wrong.

Assuming we have the strength to blow those many candles.

ChippingInLovesEasterEggs · 30/04/2012 14:16

I love denim jackets
I love Fern
I'm over 40

KnottyLocks · 30/04/2012 14:18

Chip, watch yerself love, you know what you're like with that there credit card.

ChippingInLovesEasterEggs · 30/04/2012 14:18

I don't think there's anything wrong with discussing whether something is appropriate for certain 'age groups'. Frankly, Peppa Pig Wellies are fine on the under 5's, 'ok' for the under 10's, debateable for teens and just not right on the over 20's Grin

badtasteflump · 30/04/2012 14:25

Ok so when I was 20 I would go for a night out in a slip dress that barely covered my arse. Now I don't. Other than that though, as long as I follow the rules of tits out or legs out but never both, I wear what I like (not all of my tits, obviously Smile)

galletti · 30/04/2012 14:30

I've got a (looks around and whispers) black leather biker jacket and I'm 49. Should I be shot now?

I have to admit to coming on here to ask whether I should a couple of years ago and the overriding opinion was YES!

badtasteflump · 30/04/2012 14:31

Nothing wrong with a leather biker jacket is there? Confused

Are you pairing it with leather trousers? Grin

CreamolaFoamless · 30/04/2012 14:38

leather jackets are not denim jackets

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badtasteflump · 30/04/2012 14:43

no shit sherlock Smile

CreamolaFoamless · 30/04/2012 14:45

lol

OP posts:
badtasteflump · 30/04/2012 14:48

Sorry couldn't resist Grin

FreudianSlipper · 30/04/2012 14:49

i love my 1960's levi denim jacket

i have ha it for abotu 15 years and will carry on wearing it after august (when i am 40)

though FB always looks like she has stepped out of next so i am sure mine is far cooler

BettySwollocksandaCrustyRack · 30/04/2012 14:50

I am 41 and look smoking in my denim jacket so yes YABU! Bloody hell, 40+ is not old you know! We arent all rushing off to BHS and M & S god forbid!

DilysPrice · 30/04/2012 14:52

I am over 40, but I look nothing at all like Fern Britton much to the disappointment of DH who thinks she looks like a bit of a goer. Fern is great in her way but she is a matronly 54 year old, who I agree does not look her best in denim. She is not representative of all 40+ women.

linziluv · 30/04/2012 14:54

It's got nothing to do with age and everything to do with style! Like leggings over the age of 12.....generally it should never be done, but they can look great depending on what you wear with them!
I'm 26 and have a selection of cardis lol...
I also wear uggs!
I do not however, own a velour track suit you'll be pleased to know!

MeKathryn · 30/04/2012 14:55

Eep, I was thinking of getting one for the first time since my teens just the other day. I'm 44.

NovackNGood · 30/04/2012 14:55

Not really many rules at all. Just no need to wear anything you'd see a teenager in. It just looks wrong seeing middle aged woman in clothes from Stradivarius or ETAM etc. If you are trying something on and you are wondering if you could still 'pull it off' the reality is, you can't. By all means wear what ever you like if you don't care what anyone else thinks but if you are dressing to look presentable then no reason to look like a fresh faced 40 in kids clothes.

Brandnewbrighttomorrow · 30/04/2012 14:58

YABU. Unless the demin in question is snow washed

sugarice · 30/04/2012 14:58

linziluv I am also an UGG boots wearer but like you I don't own a velour tracky Grin

MarysBeard · 30/04/2012 15:13

Leggings over the age of 12...they didn't really exist until I was about 15...

BIWIWhoMustBeObeyed · 30/04/2012 15:27

Please explain this:

"It just looks wrong seeing middle aged woman in clothes from Stradivarius or ETAM etc."

Why does it look wrong? Who tells you it looks wrong? I'd like to know an exact, specific reason why this is wrong.

OhDoAdmitMrsDeVere · 30/04/2012 15:28

I thought ETAM shut down years ago.

OhDoAdmitMrsDeVere · 30/04/2012 15:30

I wear leggings on an almost daily basis and own several velour trackies.

I am particularly fond of my fawn one. I like to team it with my fuggs and a long puffa in the winter.

Its like going out in my PJs but not going out in my PJs IYSWIM.

Tres chic for the school run

ENormaSnob · 30/04/2012 15:32

yabvu

My mil is 48 and looks amazing.

Especially in a denim jacket.

Her 30 year old partner looks hot in his too Wink