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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

to think the tax credits system is not designed to support people that have as many children as they fancy and expect the state to pick up the tab?

350 replies

LadyLazyLongLegs · 05/03/2012 21:24

An acquaintance has just announced she is pregnant with her fifth child. Her 4 children are by 2 separate fathers, and #5 is by a different father again. Her partner has a job in which he is unlikely to earn much more than the minimum wage. She doesn't work, and says they are heavily reliant on tax credits and housing benefit. Yet they are having baby #5, so effectively expecting that the tax credits system will just pick up the tab, as she has made several comments about how the tax credits will go up when #5 arrives.

Someone else I know who also says they are heavily reliant on TCs has recently had baby#3 and would like baby#4 in the near future. Again she says they can afford it as their tax credits will go up. The only working income coming into their home is that from her husband's 16 hours a week job in a shop, everything else is benefits.

What I'm trying to say is, those of us that support ourselves with no reliance on benefits have a cut off point of children that we can afford and we stop at that point. We stuck at 3 as that's all we can afford even though I would have liked one more. I feel that those that keep having child after child, totally reliant on tax credits, are abusing the system.

OP posts:
Synyster · 05/03/2012 21:26

yay a benefit bashing thread.
now we need a P&T parking thread

LilacWaltz · 05/03/2012 21:26

Yay!!!! A benefit bashing thread!!!

PattiMayor · 05/03/2012 21:26

You've changed your name but not your tune Hmm

LilacWaltz · 05/03/2012 21:26

Lol x post

faeriemoo · 05/03/2012 21:27

Wow, what a refreshing viewpoint. I've never heard anyone said this before...

ClothesOfSand · 05/03/2012 21:28

Did you want more children, OP?

ThePathanKhansWitch · 05/03/2012 21:28

Ok then.

my2centsis · 05/03/2012 21:29

If you have such a high opinion on this you need to go and speak to you 'friend' about it rather then talking about her on here then being nice to her face.

In saying that YANBU to think this is wrong!!

The poster asking were today's benefit thread is will be pleased to read this Grin

Moominsarescary · 05/03/2012 21:30

What again, so soon? Some people will never earn more than the minimum wage, maybe we should force them to be sterilised

sunshineandbooks · 05/03/2012 21:30

Well I think YABU for having three DC (and claiming all that child benefit). Three is terribly selfish dontchaknow. Wink

LadyLazyLongLegs · 05/03/2012 21:30

I didn't call them friends, and I didn't say I was nice to her face.

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D0G · 05/03/2012 21:30

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lovelychops · 05/03/2012 21:32

bore off...

banditqueen · 05/03/2012 21:33

Bash em in! Bash em in! I think the state should take their children and burn them as fuel, so they can reclaim the cost which we have all had to burden by their existence so far.
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LadyBeagleEyes · 05/03/2012 21:33

Now let's get a few more details.
Do they have a widescreen TV?
Do they live on Macdonalds/KFC/oe any other fastfood outlets?
Do they have a huge council house and receive HB?
Do they have a goat?
I need answers to all these questions before I can make a judgement I'm afraid.

ThisIsANickname · 05/03/2012 21:33
LineRunner · 05/03/2012 21:33

everyone should surely be killed.

Moominsarescary · 05/03/2012 21:33

I love jog on, always forget to use it though

AKissIsNotAContract · 05/03/2012 21:33

If you really think they have a better life than you then have another baby and try relying on tax credits.

LadyLazyLongLegs · 05/03/2012 21:34

So are you all saying it's ok then to have a higher than average number of children and be subsidised highly by the state?

OP posts:
LilacWaltz · 05/03/2012 21:34

Op..... Don't you claim benefits yourself then? Child BENEFIT maybe?

LineRunner · 05/03/2012 21:34

No, there is no 'we'.

LilacWaltz · 05/03/2012 21:35

What's average then?

NinthWave · 05/03/2012 21:35

We still need a BF/FF thread and an 'other people's catshit' thread. Any takers?

D0G · 05/03/2012 21:35

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