to think that women with spanking fetishes and suchlike should be ashamed of themselves?

[saidthespiderwithahorridsmile]

ditto being tied up, rape fantasies etc

what sort of message does this sort of "fantasy" send to the male of the species? That really, deep down, women want to be dominated? That physical control is sexy?

Honestly. Women who indulge in this sort of twisted self-hatred need therapy. And to grow up.

Ooer, Missus! Whatever turns some people on is THEIR business!

Erm.... presume this is a wind up?

were you rubbing yourself as you typed that?

I think it is everyone's business when some women encourage men to believe that women actually enjoy being abused.

Being tied up, mmmmmmmmmmm

Ohhhh, so it's WOMEN to blame for male sexual violence.

Of course.

Their own business, as long as it is all consenting.

BROKEN BRITAIN!!!!

I'm very ashamed of myself.

So much so that I deserve to be punished severely.

snigger @ toby

[gets out paddle and advances menacingly on TobyLerone]

I didn't say women were to blame for male violence. Far from it. Men are squarely to blame for their actions.

But it doesn't help, does it, if some women fetishize male violence/domination? I suppose I think it is irresponsible as well as unhealthy.

Oooooh my first . Me thinks the OP isn't getting any.

Repression is the way to go then?

One woman with one man one she really trusts does not make the whole male species into abusers. I love being tied up and spanked among others Only done it with my husband though and he likes to be dominated in return doesn't make either of us think that the whole of the opposite sex wants it!

OP but that's like saying oh Paedophiles it's all their fault but when children run around naked on a beach it doesn't help does it.

Au contraire, I am getting plenty but within a respectful and equal relationship. I admit I don't understand what is sexy about being abused or ill-treated.

My first
How dare you place any limits on femal sexuality. Go back to the past and take youe repressed opinions with you.

Completely what TorcherQueenie said.

Nancy Friday?

wow anger makes my spelling crap

The relationships of which BDSM has been a part have, for me, been the most respectful and equal I've ever been in.

Arf at cunt and toby's comments

Is it Friday already?

Some men like to dress up in diapers and pretend to be a massive baby.

Knowing this doesn't lead me to assume that all men want to be dominated.

Can't really see your point OP.