to think that women with spanking fetishes and suchlike should be ashamed of themselves?

[saidthespiderwithahorridsmile]

ditto being tied up, rape fantasies etc

what sort of message does this sort of "fantasy" send to the male of the species? That really, deep down, women want to be dominated? That physical control is sexy?

Honestly. Women who indulge in this sort of twisted self-hatred need therapy. And to grow up.

so op, does your dh like it in the arse?

if so he must like to be treated as gay and if he allows you as a woman to believe he likes to be treated as gay then all women around the world are going to think all men secretly want to be gay

lost me?

not really surprising, I'm spouting the same crap as you did in your op

Have you actually tried any of these things you seem so dead set against? Maybe you would change your mind

I still don't understand the actually bearing it apparently has on your life. Fair enough you might not understand why I some women like a good old spanking amongst other things but what exactly is your point here?

People all over the world have differing likes in their sexual preferences. It still makes no difference to you.

I don't know how some people can go hunting for trophy animals but they do. I don't go on a rant about it.

Most people can actually differentiate between fantasy and RL. Anyone, man or woman, who thinks that because some women (or men) enjoy being dominated in safe, consensual situations that doing the same in unsafe, non-consensual situations is ok is an idiot.

[snigger] at TSC.

www.youtube.com/watch?hl=en-GB&v=zLm5oSJRxIU

OP - I think you'd like this.

me and you were always right there second coming, weren't we duuude

I don't agree with it in much the same way that I don't agree with entertainment wrestling.

I think it is ridiculous and damaging but I don't feel a need for wider society to get involved in people's psychological issues.

sorry, but erm "chidlren sexualise violence"? WFT??

Exactly what manatee said...

As far as "media images" are concerned, ie sexual fantasies in the public domain, in my limited experience there are lots more of dominatrix women who spank men than the other way around...

where does that leave your cod psychology, OP?

What kind of therapy stops people finding stuff sexy anyway?

i meant children and WTF, obviously.

I'm almost proud that my first biscuit was greeted with such a response

I maintain that when women decide what other women are 'allowed' to be turned on by we have reached the stage where we might as well be completly subjected to male rule, at least then we could have some decent sex.

millyr you "don't agree" with it.

So what?

Why share that? Big screaming for you....

sorry millyr naughty me, misread your post

eats own

YABU.

I would love for you to explain how the sexual fantasies of other people have an impact on your life?

Saying fetishes encourage violence against women is like saying having sex encourages rape

I have been naughty so get the wips and chains out dearest lol. As long as it is constented and do it in private whats the problem. Live a little.

Having agreed with most of what was up there, I still couldn't fancy a man who wanted to be spanked.

Oh Good God is this the 1940's?.....Women should be ashamed for having certain sexual preferences?

I still want to know if the ops dh likes being bummed

Well I personally would like a list of fantasies that the OP thinks are appropriate. I wouldn't want to get it wrong.

Don't eat that biscuit Flyingonion! It is my first MN biscuit.

Yes I agree completely. A woman indulging in such fantasies with a trusted partner sends out the message that physical domination is sexy. They should be ashamed of themselves alongside women who go out dressed in provocative clothing that are asking to be raped.

(my first also)