to think that women with spanking fetishes and suchlike should be ashamed of themselves?

[saidthespiderwithahorridsmile]

ditto being tied up, rape fantasies etc

what sort of message does this sort of "fantasy" send to the male of the species? That really, deep down, women want to be dominated? That physical control is sexy?

Honestly. Women who indulge in this sort of twisted self-hatred need therapy. And to grow up.

Go to Torture Garden and you'll see equal numbers of men and women being spanked.

So is it ok for men to continue being spanked or not?

I just can't be arsed arguing with people who don't understand s&m any more. If you don't want to do it, don't do it, but if you really think it encourages or justifies abuse in some way, you are sorely mistaken and playing right into abusers hands because you are excusing them for their shitty actions.

I don't care what anyone enjoys in private but any woman who describes 50 Shades as a book should be hung, drawn and tortured.

I was going to post on this thread, the realised that I already did, back when it was new

Personally, I think that there is nothing wrong with S&M, between consenting trusted adults. Any man who has half a brain, will understand this is something between two consenting adults, and is not acceptable to force on a woman who doesn't want it. Any man who thinks that it's ok to use force, domination or humiliation on someone who doesn't want it, is intrinsically a twat, with a bad attitude, and would be a twat whatever sexual messages his partner gave him!
The fact that he is a twat, isn't the woman's fault!

Absolutely lisascat - a Dom/sub relationship is about respect, emotional and physical freedom, and informed consent. OP, if this isn't a wind up, I suggest you put your mind at ease by reading up on the lifestyle. I can understand how, at first glance, this type of kink might seem alarming, but above all it's about honesty and respect. Surely that's a good thing, even if it's not to your personal taste?

Consent and respect make many things okay. Lack of it can make the same thing far from okay.

Rape fantasies aren't my thing, but a 'rape' fantasy played out starts with consent. (Therefore not strictly rape)

If a man is a monster, playing these 'games' won't do it for him because he won't be interested in pleasuring the woman at all.

I went out with a sexist woman hating pig once many years ago. His idea of sex was on top and thrusting away until "he" came.

Anything two people or more if that's their bag do behind closed doors and enjoy is totally up to them.

Zombie thread alert

Jakers, what makes a thread Zombie-rise twice?
Spanking, clearly . Please lock down threads, MNHQ

Zombie thread.
And it's been done twice.

Now this has got to be the kinkiest zombie I ever have seen...

Oh my.

Who said it in the MN 50Shoites?

Are you biting your lip again sirgold ?

Zombie thread must be a wind up!

Did you know there is actually such a thing as zombie porn?

I've come to this late but thanks for this

After your OP I feel properly ashamed and humilated and will ask DH to take me across his knee later in punishment for my shameful wrong doings

Oh wait....................

zombie porn

Tsk

I got all cross fpr a zombie thread

solidgoldbrass

Rule 34 of the internet

No im glad it's been resurrected.

"frothing at the gash" a quote by the ever wonderful and sorely missed TheSecondComing has made me snort yet again.

Aww...

Look at all the posters in the thread before the resurrection that you don't see anymore.

Where have they all gone?

AmyBelle? What's that? I was thinking of that Ronin film or maybe Porn Of The Dead (though that is a Most Haunted parody rather than an actual zombie porn film...)

SolidGoldBrass- Rule 34 of the internet states that if it exists there is porn of it. Don't try and look for an exception for the rule... you will not find one and it will just creep you out!

Ah. I knew that. That rule was true before there was an internet, actually... (mind drifts back 20 years or so to first exposure to the Readers' Letters cupboard...)

Oh dear. Mind your own. I love giving dh a good spanking if you know what I mean . Two consenting adults what's the problem. Rape and abuse has nothing to do with it. You have no business interferring in other peoples sex lives