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AIBU?

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To make my kids walk home (withme) cos I have had a drink???

196 replies

drivinmecrazy · 26/05/2011 14:43

We live a 10 minute walk from school, the route we take meanders along a footpath, lots of wildlife and nature. To take the car also takes 10 minutes.
I have had a few drinkies with a friend over lunch, but now it's decidedly blustery. Kids are going to hate the weather but have no choice cos I have to walk to pick them up.
I know I have no choice but to walk but they are going to get blown to buggery. Now feel a teensy bit guilty cos it was sunny when I had a drink.
Should I have not had a drink at all (not had much but too much to drive) or should I have declined just in case my little darlings get a bit wet and windy swept on the way home

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drivinmecrazy · 26/05/2011 14:45

OOOHH! now they are going to thing IABU cos its starting to rain!!!

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CogitoErgoSometimes · 26/05/2011 14:46

A ten minute walk in the fresh air is good for everyone. You're doing them a favour.

Thingumy · 26/05/2011 14:47

we walk everyday as I don't drive.

It won't kill them will it?

I suggest a coffee and brushing your teeth though before hitting the school gates Grin

saffy85 · 26/05/2011 14:48

YANBU. But then again, I walked home from school (about the same time frame as yours) in ALL weathers. They wont melt.

Did you have a nice afternoon? [hic!]

Pictish · 26/05/2011 14:49

I don't have a car and live a whisker off two miles from the school. My 3 year old walks there and back to nursery each day in all weathers, along with my 9 yr old in p5, while I push dd in the buggy.

How soft are you?! Grin

AgentZigzag · 26/05/2011 14:49

A bit of weather will be good for 'em.

Make sure they know you're doing them a favour Grin

grumblinalong · 26/05/2011 14:49

YANBU to make your DC's walk for 10 mins anywhere, whatever the weather. It won't do them any harm and if they shigne they are being spoilt.

YABU for bragging about having lunchtime drinks with a friend - I'm just jealous though because I'm 8 months pregnant with DC3 and the world of lunch & drinks seems so adult and distant Grin

ReindeerBollocks · 26/05/2011 14:49

They'll be jumping in puddles and throwing sticks at each other (or is that just my two Grin ).

DS moans about getting dropped off/picked up by car as it's less fun than walking Hmm. They may enjoy it and it'll do them good.

grumblinalong · 26/05/2011 14:50

I know not what 'shigne' means. I meant whinge.

stripeytiger · 26/05/2011 14:51

Don't feel guilty, so you had a few drinks, so what, as long as you aren't falling over and slurring your words, no harm done. The kids will be fine, if a little bedraggled. Know what you mean though about the weather (have just posted about it) talk about blow away the cobwebs.

drivinmecrazy · 26/05/2011 14:51

Thank you, feel so good now am just sneaking in another glass before I embark on my journey (thanx for the tip about brushing teeth, sods law will be a day teacher wants a word)

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SockShitter · 26/05/2011 14:52

YANBU, but they will be muddy and that will be your penance

Thingumy · 26/05/2011 14:53

I'd slow down OP.

Really.

Fresh air and the last slurped glass will hit you otherwise.

sausagesandmarmelade · 26/05/2011 14:54

Kids need to walk more....fresh air and a bit of rain won't hurt them.

stripeytiger · 26/05/2011 14:55

Just starting raining here too....you don't live in Cornwall do you? :) Thought I'd seen the last of my boots and Helly Hansen until October....clearly not.

mouseanon · 26/05/2011 14:55

Why on earth would you drive if you're 10 mins walk from school?

drivinmecrazy · 26/05/2011 14:56

I sometimes drive cos its too cold/windy/raining/lazy.

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MonstaMunch · 26/05/2011 14:58

I might have a couple at lunch, but wouldnt carry on during the afternoon - I dont think thats a great idea tbh

Hullygully · 26/05/2011 14:59

Did you have a few cigs as well?

nickelbabe · 26/05/2011 14:59

10 minutes is a very short walk.

yanbu at all.
espcially if you had a drink earlier - you are setting a good example by walking

drivinmecrazy · 26/05/2011 15:03

Actually Hullygully I did, does that make a difference???

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porcamiseria · 26/05/2011 15:04

good for you, make em walk ! one day wont hurt

Hullygully · 26/05/2011 15:08

Just thought you might have done..

How's Jayden?

drivinmecrazy · 26/05/2011 15:09

Am leaving the house now, wind and rain have disappeared so now I just have to focus on the straight line I must follow. Felt so indulgent today, but am 40 on Saturday so think I may have earnt it. Please pray for me that teacher doesn't want to chat about DD2 (again)

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drivinmecrazy · 26/05/2011 15:09

Who is Jayden?????

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