To tell my best friend's DH that he has two days to tell her what's going on or I will?

[Megatron]

I really don't know what to do.

I was in a park with DD today and saw my best friend's DH out with another woman (I know he works with her). They were having a picnic together and were kissing, holiding hands. feeding her (boak) and he was running his hand up and down her inner thigh. He turned and saw me and nearly crapped himself, scrambling to his feet and pretending to answer his phone (wanker).

I fucking hate him. They've been married for 2 years and have a 10 week old DS. Her last relationship was horrendous (DV) and she thought she'd found the man of her dreams (we all did). She told me yesterday how lucky she felt to have met him - I love my friend and I know this will destroy her and I don't know how to deal with it at all. He's been trying to ring my mobile but I'm not picking up.

What the hell do I do? Do i pretend it hasn't happened (I can't do that, I know I can't). Do I tell her? Do I give him the opportunity to tell her?

I want to trap his balls in a vice. Please folks, can you give me some guidance?

[QuackQuackSqueak]

Your poor friend!

[pingu2209]

How is your friend? This weekend will be hard? Has she kicked her husband out?

[fairydoll]

NO NO NO stay out of it!!!!
Instead of thanking you, your friend and her DH will both end up hating you.I have seen this happen SO many times.

[BrokenBananaTantrum]

Megatron. Everyone should have a friend like you. You are a great friend and it is not you who has broken her heart it is him. Good on you. I hope the weekend has been manageable for you and your friend.

[geordieminx]

Fairy you might want to read the thread scroll down 100 or so messages, she has already told her

[DirtyMartini]

Brave work, Megatron.

"I knew you'd tell her" -- WTAF? That alone confirms you've done her a massive favour.

Hugs to the baby x

[pingu2209]

Any news on your friend?

[CoffeeIsMyFriend]

hope you are all ok Mega

[constantlytired]

Hi...This thread has stayed with me for a couple of days, popping into my head....just can't believe how utterly disgusting this excuse for a man is....How is your friend doing?

[QuintessentialOldMoo]

I think Mega is being a good and descent friend, and would not really come back to update us on her friend now that she has worked out how to handle it.

Good luck Mega, you rock. You are a good friend.