Just to add, DS2 is disabled, with autism and a learning disability, he has moderate care needs, can’t be left alone, bowel incontinent, in a specialist school. So I am not ignoring those who cannot work due to disability.
But the number of people so disabled they cannot work AT ALL is not the majority. DS2 will be capable of some work in the future with the right support.
We always knew DS1 would be capable of work and living independently and so we have always encouraged him in this direction and focussed on his strengths and what he can do, rather than infantilising him and fostering a dependency on others attitude.
Too many young people are being written off. By the system, by employers and even (well meaningfully but misguidedly) by they own parents.
I would prefer to see universal incentives into skilled work where we have shortages. And incentives to employers to employ people with disabilities who are capable of working, with support, and who just need to be given a chance. Very few people are so disabled they cannot do any work at all ever - yet this seems to have become the norm.