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Do 99% of men think about someone else while DTD?

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Salsa2026 · 01/05/2026 18:29

Just that really. Lots of people, here and in general say things like, “all men fantasise about other women during sex at the very least sometimes”. And when I say all I really mean the vast majority, as there can always be an exception to everything.

If it’s true I think it’s quite grim tbh and makes me glad I’m not in a relationship. I’d want a man to be all about me 🤣

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SingedSoul · 18/05/2026 19:22

Salsa2026 · 18/05/2026 19:21

Forgot to add - I think some people can’t stand the thought that someone else might have a more ‘idealistic’ relationship than they do? So they have to deny that those relationships/people who are dating exist.

So you have an idealistic relationship?

Salsa2026 · 18/05/2026 19:28

SingedSoul · 18/05/2026 19:22

So you have an idealistic relationship?

I did, before we both had to move to different countries. It wasn’t a serious relationship though, just a fun one.

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SingedSoul · 18/05/2026 20:56

Salsa2026 · 18/05/2026 19:28

I did, before we both had to move to different countries. It wasn’t a serious relationship though, just a fun one.

Hmmm

Salsa2026 · 20/05/2026 15:47

SingedSoul · 18/05/2026 20:56

Hmmm

Not sure what you mean by this but whatever….

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