My darling husband

[Stickygloop]

He’s had a stroke following a number of open heart surgeries to repair and replace his heart valves. I can’t breathe, I overheard them say terminal stroke. I love him so much.

Very sad, he’s so young, I hope you all get to say goodbye but at the same time I’m hoping for a miracle so you don’t have to x

I’m so so sorry x

I am so very sorry you and your family are going through this. There are no words adequate enough other than to let you know we are thinking of you all and sending you our love and support.

Sending love OP, so sorry.

So sorry do keep talking to him the hearing is the strongest sense 🌹

Oh I’m so sorry Life can be cruel
I’m sending much love and strength to you and yours, and will be thinking of your DH

I am so sorry,, you can all be with him - sending hugs to you and your family xxx

Sending your family so much love and strength at this time. So glad you and the children will get an opportunity to say goodbye and that you have the older children to support you x

Your love and sadness radiates from your post, so terribly sad. Sending love and support OP. I wish I had been on that train to hold your hand.

I’m afraid this must happen more than you admit to. My late husband had a bleed on the brain and it was decided there was no hope of recovery. He was unconscious so obviously could neither eat nor drink. He was being fed intravenously. I asked what the point of this was if there was 100% guarantee that he would die eventually. I couldn’t see the point of keeping him alive when there was no hope, and he could carry on existing for weeks in this vegetative state. They asked me if I was asking them to stop treatment and I said I was. It broke my heart but I had to do what was right for him. It was agreed that his lips would be kept moist but that was all. He died peacefully a few hours later and just before he took his last breath, a single tear trickled down his cheek.

I'm so very sorry my heart goes out to you. I'm glad your children will be with you tomorrow. ❤️ I know we are on mumsnet but sending hugs your way.

My heart goes out to you and your children

I lost a lovely friend to stroke a few years ago, while she was doing chemo.

Life is so unfair sometimes.

xx

How awful for you all.
He is suffering least of anyone, if that’s any consolation.
💐💐💐

I am so sorry. I wish that there will be a good outcome for you and your husband. It is desperately sad

So sorry to hear this op 💐

Thank you for having the courage to share your feelings with us.
Its ok to show your emotions, so try not to worry what others may think.
Sending you and your family cyber hugs.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

I have no words to help, but just wanted to say that I am so very sorry.

Biggest hugs. & lots of love 😘

So sorry for you and your children.

Just sending love x̌x

Your poor loves, all of you. I am so sorry.

@Ilikeadrink14 your post made me sob. I’m so sorry for your loss.
i lost my mum so suddenly from a huge bleed on the brain just over 5 years ago I was heavily pregnant with my first baby. She was everything to me. The speed of it all was harrowing plus throw Covid in I couldn’t even go to the hospital. Awful awful sadness on this thread .

so sorry OP to you and your children

So sorry to hear this , and he is still such a young man . Lots of people think a stroke is just an elderly persons thing when even a baby in the womb can have one.
Take care of yourself in the coming weeks and accept all help from those that can offer help .

I’m so so sorry. There’s nothing else to say. X

I am thinking of you, OP. I wish I could take your pain away. I will hold you in my thoughts and prayers. There are no words I can think of to express how painful this must be for you, but there are many people on here embracing you. Xxx