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They dont know it`s a turn on

199 replies

husbandhotstuff · 08/03/2025 12:44

A bit bored today.
So my user name says it all.
What dose your partner or husband do that you find really sexy but its just normal.
But they dont know its a turn on.

Mine is when he dose his belt up or un-dose it or just leaves it undone while he gets ready for the day i dont know why but yeah its a thing.

OP posts:
AmusedGoose · 08/03/2025 12:54

He adores my DGC even though he has no blood ties.

wizzywig · 08/03/2025 12:58

Show us a video op, let us be the judge of his sexiness

husbandhotstuff · 08/03/2025 13:01

wizzywig · 08/03/2025 12:58

Show us a video op, let us be the judge of his sexiness

Lol it wont be sexy to you lot we are both in our 50s.

OP posts:
2025mustbebetter · 08/03/2025 13:08

Rolls up his sleeves

Fixes the car.

I can literally do everything myself but I like it when he does it. Like I'm some pathetic little woman (which I am absolutely not!)

He'd better not try and help me with what I'm doing though. Unsexiest thing ever!

PontiacFirebird · 08/03/2025 13:27

He’s a brilliant host.Like if we are having a party and the buffet gets decimated he’ll tidy up and replenish without me even spotting it. He’ll anticipate when people are migrating to another room and make sure there is enough seating. He’s like the best waiter at a posh restaurant 😁and he never gets het up or panicky about hosting like I do. I just find that really hot.

toobusytothink · 08/03/2025 13:29

When he parallel parks into the tiniest space. I go all funny watching him 😂

Rosietru · 08/03/2025 13:31

When he uses his drill. I haven't told him or he'd constantly be drilling things.

thorneyislanddoris · 08/03/2025 13:33

DH rides an off road motorbike. He looks so sexy in the special trousers, boots and jacket.

I don't tell him though because he spends enough time riding that thing already. He doesn't need any encouragement! 🤣

LilyCandelabra · 08/03/2025 13:33

toobusytothink · 08/03/2025 13:29

When he parallel parks into the tiniest space. I go all funny watching him 😂

Haha yes love watching mine do this, with just the palm of one hand on the steering wheel the show off!

TheFunSponge · 08/03/2025 13:35

Christ, I'd be happy if my husband could park the car full stop 😂😂. When he fixes things by watching a video or reading the manual, that'll do it for me!

Itisallgoingtobeok · 08/03/2025 13:35

I am no longer married, but I get the rolled up sleeves. No idea why it's so impactful!!

Sourisblanche · 08/03/2025 13:40

Mine has a challenging and sometimes dangerous job that takes him away for half the year. Imagining him on the plane makes me go all funny in a kind of James Bond way😂

That and his very big brain helping dc with a-level maths, I like listening to him working out numbers.

KendricksGin · 08/03/2025 13:46

His voice. When we first got together many years ago, I used to phone his voicemail just to hear his voice.

Toucanfusingforme · 08/03/2025 13:58

Playing his acoustic guitar, especially with his sleeves rolled up. Perfection!

MrsPeterHarris · 08/03/2025 14:03

PontiacFirebird · 08/03/2025 13:27

He’s a brilliant host.Like if we are having a party and the buffet gets decimated he’ll tidy up and replenish without me even spotting it. He’ll anticipate when people are migrating to another room and make sure there is enough seating. He’s like the best waiter at a posh restaurant 😁and he never gets het up or panicky about hosting like I do. I just find that really hot.

I think we have the same husband & I find this particularly sexy too!

ipadipeed · 08/03/2025 14:05

When in a short sleeve and folds his arms across his chest, I can see his upper arm muscle bulging! I love it

IDontDrinkTea · 08/03/2025 14:07

Puts his hand on my car headrest while reverse parking one handed

it’s very specific I know but it’s attractive af 😅

TheAlertFinch · 08/03/2025 14:16

IDontDrinkTea · 08/03/2025 14:07

Puts his hand on my car headrest while reverse parking one handed

it’s very specific I know but it’s attractive af 😅

That's a common one on these sort of threads.

GroovyChick87 · 08/03/2025 14:18

Puts on his work trousers and shows off the tight buns in all their glory.

Laiste · 08/03/2025 14:34

Mine's quite muscly from work (nice tan in the summer) but has almost a dancers frame. Moves well. He's very alpha male but often sits in chairs with one foot up and his forearm resting on the knee and i love it 😊He's like a sexy cat 😜

DinoLil · 08/03/2025 14:54

*does!

Goody2ShoesAndTheFilthyBeast · 08/03/2025 14:59

The way he treats our cats like they're his tiny babies while also claiming he isn't a pet person and thinks animals should never have been domesticated.

Also his grin.

ScottBakula · 08/03/2025 15:08

PontiacFirebird · 08/03/2025 13:27

He’s a brilliant host.Like if we are having a party and the buffet gets decimated he’ll tidy up and replenish without me even spotting it. He’ll anticipate when people are migrating to another room and make sure there is enough seating. He’s like the best waiter at a posh restaurant 😁and he never gets het up or panicky about hosting like I do. I just find that really hot.

Do you loan him out to host other people's parties?

Asking for a friend 😁

LSGXX · 08/03/2025 15:11

When he does a useful job in a manly, competent way. Eg power-washes the patio. Or mends something.

Capability is so attractive in a man.

ANGIEPANGY77 · 08/03/2025 15:35

I find it extra sexy when my husband parallel parks the car.