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They dont know it`s a turn on

199 replies

husbandhotstuff · 08/03/2025 12:44

A bit bored today.
So my user name says it all.
What dose your partner or husband do that you find really sexy but its just normal.
But they dont know its a turn on.

Mine is when he dose his belt up or un-dose it or just leaves it undone while he gets ready for the day i dont know why but yeah its a thing.

OP posts:
hoodiemassive · 08/03/2025 15:41

When he wears hi-vis or rough looking work clothes - I have told him though!

husbandhotstuff · 08/03/2025 15:51

Another on ive just thought of is when he uses a screwdriver.

OP posts:
Screamingabdabz · 08/03/2025 15:54

Doesn’t everyone parallel park? Surely it’s not something just sexy husbands do? 😵‍💫

Lovemycat2023 · 08/03/2025 16:13

When he looks slightly geeky. Tank top (over checked shirt), and glasses on (which he doesn’t often wear).

evtheria · 08/03/2025 16:15

Mows the lawn

Tashface · 08/03/2025 16:24

Mine gyrates sexily up and down the glass screen when he's having a shower and I just happen to have popped to the loo for a wee. He accompanies it with singing 'mysterious girl' in his best Peter Andre voice 😂

AubernFable · 08/03/2025 16:25

PontiacFirebird · 08/03/2025 13:27

He’s a brilliant host.Like if we are having a party and the buffet gets decimated he’ll tidy up and replenish without me even spotting it. He’ll anticipate when people are migrating to another room and make sure there is enough seating. He’s like the best waiter at a posh restaurant 😁and he never gets het up or panicky about hosting like I do. I just find that really hot.

I LOVE this, I don’t find typical ‘manly’ things sexy at all but a classy man? Absolutely. My DH is very pretty, I catch myself staring while he’s just looking at his phone or in the car- not sure if that counts.

MockOranges · 08/03/2025 16:25

He's clever. Clever is always a turn on.

AubernFable · 08/03/2025 16:28

Lovemycat2023 · 08/03/2025 16:13

When he looks slightly geeky. Tank top (over checked shirt), and glasses on (which he doesn’t often wear).

This too! Buff mechanic type men do absolutely nothing for me.

JeanPaulGagtier · 08/03/2025 16:31

Being clever and kind. Highly under rated in the current climate.

JeanPaulGagtier · 08/03/2025 16:32

Following on, reading. Men reading books are sexy. As long as it's not some twaddle about flat earth or Andrew Tate.

Laszlomydarling · 08/03/2025 16:33

Watching him chopping veg. No idea why. But it's awesome 😁

Justcallmebebes · 08/03/2025 16:36

When there's a problem with my car and he says "stand back love, I'll have l look" then rolls his sleeves up, pops the bonnet and then sorts it. Leaves me weak at the knees Grin

Lovemycat2023 · 08/03/2025 16:37

So just to summarise: a kind intelligent funny man, reading a book whilst cooking veg with his sleeves rolled up, whilst being lovely with the cat. After perfectly parallel parking.

dontforgetme · 08/03/2025 16:40

@PontiacFirebird same here! He is the best host and he always makes sure my grandparents are sorted first which makes me swoon!

Also when he is on the phone with work sorting a problem. He just knows what the hell he's talking about and it's so sexy! But then he'll do his ridiculous Chandler Bing fake work laugh and totally ruin it Grin

DustyLee123 · 08/03/2025 16:43

When he used to come home from work late, come straight to bed, and take off his white work shirt.

Devilsmommy · 08/03/2025 16:43

hoodiemassive · 08/03/2025 15:41

When he wears hi-vis or rough looking work clothes - I have told him though!

Same😂 can't get enough of him in filthy orange hi Vis 😋

vitahelp · 08/03/2025 16:44

Motorbike gear / motorbiking
Arm round back of passenger seat when reversing the car
Wearing running gear

Alltheburpees · 08/03/2025 16:46

I was away with him on a work thing once, and watched him do a presentation in his business suit with crisp white shirt and a tie. Oh the things I wanted to do to him right there on the spot.

Ididntsaybanana · 08/03/2025 16:52

When he comes in from work in the summer, black tshirt and orange hi vis trousers plus his glasses for driving. He's usually a bit grubby too and smells of diesel.

PoppyBaxter · 08/03/2025 17:22

2025mustbebetter · 08/03/2025 13:08

Rolls up his sleeves

Fixes the car.

I can literally do everything myself but I like it when he does it. Like I'm some pathetic little woman (which I am absolutely not!)

He'd better not try and help me with what I'm doing though. Unsexiest thing ever!

Same. I'm so practical and can do pretty much everything, but love it when DH fixes things, especially if there's a bit of heavy lifting / technical jiggery pokery/ grease involved.

PoppyBaxter · 08/03/2025 17:24

Devilsmommy · 08/03/2025 16:43

Same😂 can't get enough of him in filthy orange hi Vis 😋

I love DH in his work gear and high vis. I also love those black workman trousers with all of the pockets!
He retrained from office work into a trade and I've certainly got no complaints!

indecisivewoman81 · 08/03/2025 17:37

My DH has lovely hands and I love watching him using them! Especially if he is massaging my feet!

Devilsmommy · 08/03/2025 17:39

PoppyBaxter · 08/03/2025 17:24

I love DH in his work gear and high vis. I also love those black workman trousers with all of the pockets!
He retrained from office work into a trade and I've certainly got no complaints!

Yep those trousers are the best😍 the more pockets the hotter they are 😂

SpottedDonkey · 08/03/2025 17:43

DP is an excellent cook, and watching him sharpening his knives like a pro, de-boning a piece of meat effortlessly or chopping vegetables perfectly is so hot.

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