They dont know it`s a turn on

[husbandhotstuff]

A bit bored today.
So my user name says it all.
What dose your partner or husband do that you find really sexy but its just normal.
But they dont know its a turn on.

Mine is when he dose his belt up or un-dose it or just leaves it undone while he gets ready for the day i dont know why but yeah its a thing.

We had a car crash. Nobody was hurt but the car was a write off. He knew exactly what to do and how to handle everything. I've never wanted him more!

Had a crush on a colleague for 5 years. Completely secret and one sided I'm sure. But whenever she holds out a hand to get up off the floor (normally because I've been fixing something). Were both very capable women. But I feel a spark and get fanny gallops as she grabs my hand.

When I overhear my DH on a teams call and he's being really firm and confident in what he's saying, even disagreeing with whom ever he is talking too. I love the firmness, he's nice about it, not arrogant. He can be arrogant too and I call him out on that trait.

The one hand parking. Or putting his arm over the passenger seat headrest when turning round to look when parking. I was gutted when we got a car with a reverse camera

Serves in tennis 😍

I have a thing for forearms, so rolled up sleeves is a tick.

Being an engaged parent and pulling his weight in the home is so attractive.

When he does DIY ...

Reads to me when we are in bed. He’s got this gravelly sexy voice.

Cooks.

talks about things he’s passionate about, and he’s so intelligent.

Wears suits and glasses that make him look like a slightly stuffy history teacher but underneath has tattoos and a filthy mind that nobody except me gets to see

Spoiling the cats

Getting all the (to me) completely incomprehensible sciencey questions right when we're watching University Challenge

A well-fitting suit on a man is the equivalent of lingerie on a woman - allegedly

Mine’s been on a health kick the last couple of years and has recently started weights at the gym. He’s not massively toned or ripped or anything but he is getting some definition. When he’s driving with short sleeves you can see his arms and his biceps look 😍.

Does things competently and without being asked.

Chefs kiss

When he was bent over today sawing a piece of wood in the garden.

Phwar but of course don't want to over inflate his ego so I admired quietly

Lies back and puts his arm behind his neck. No idea why this appeals to me but it does. Also seeing him be nice to animals

YES

The way he rolls his sleeves up and snaps on his medical gloves. He's a paramedic.

I'm a nurse, been watching men snap medical gloves on for years. Hubby is the only one that does it for me, lol.

When he protects my peace. Examples are telling DC to leave me alone because I'm relaxing. Taking the phone off me and telling whoever is trying to sell me something we're not interested, ditto with people selling things at the front door. He knows I struggle to assert myself sometimes.

Breathes.

I'm playing even though I have a wife not a husband. The way she pushes her glasses up her nose with her middle finger and the way she rubs her hands together when she tells me something and she's nervous of my response. Damn cute! I'd never tell her or she might stop!

Quiet confidence, and ambition, for me. I look at job adverts for my husband's department (NHS) and get a kick out of seeing his name as the top man.

And when he wears his reading glasses, and his blue eyes and freckles are magnified 😂

I seem to have developed a thing for men in glasses. I saw Declan Donnelly in glasses recently and had a moment 😆 I've developed a few weird crushes on famous glasses wearers 😂

When he's on the phone discussing work. Self employed, runs his own business and often other companies have to phone him for advice about the jobs they're on
The man seriously knows his stuff in the industry and all the jargon perks my ears every time. He doesn't explain it to them like he knows better - he just talks and all this interesting specialist engineering chat comes out
So unbelievably sexy

His intelligence, caring nature (if he likes you!) and little round glasses.
When we first got together when he was trying hard to be a 90s 'lad', it was the way he rolled a fag!

Mine is fitting the new bathroom as we speak. He IS a plumbing & heating engineer, but I don't get to see him work usually..He has on THOSE pocketed trousers & his tool belt, & flexing his gorgeous fore-arms. Hot!

Also when he comes in from mountain biking- sweaty & smiling so hard as he's so excited..

Swinging his leg over his motorbike in his one piece bike leathers. Grrr

This is a nice thread OP.

I could eat my man alive - he's far from perfect but so VERY sexy in my eyes - and one thing that really gets to me is his voice. He has a deep voice anyway, but when he's aroused it goes even lower and kind of throaty, like the sound an angry wolf might make at the back or it's throat - it absolutely melts me.