They dont know it`s a turn on

[husbandhotstuff]

A bit bored today.
So my user name says it all.
What dose your partner or husband do that you find really sexy but its just normal.
But they dont know its a turn on.

Mine is when he dose his belt up or un-dose it or just leaves it undone while he gets ready for the day i dont know why but yeah its a thing.

Mine does the most ridiculous striptease for me. It makes me howl. You've never seen anything like it. Think of the most ludicrous strip tease routine you can think of and you're about a quarter of how daft his is.

I love it. He happily makes a total tit out of himself just to make me laugh.

I turn myself on when I do an amazing parallel park! 😜 It’s a tricky manoeuvre and a sense of achievement to do it well/impressive to watch others do it well!

(Only half joking!)

I also love arms. Forearms and biceps and shoulders. My dp has amazing arms.

My firstborn DC was as a result of the sexy rolled-up-sleeve thing.
😍

I can believe that: it shows off his body shape.

When he quietly does something that needs doing, like replacing the toothpaste or buying batteries. He never tells me or boasts about it, he just waits for me to realise that he's noticed something needs doing and has done it and then I swoon!

He also has incredibly good taste in shoes which was one of the first things I noticed about him.

I don't know why this happens, but after eating dinner together, if my hand touches him at the table or his hand touches me, I get a force through me & trust me, it reaches some interesting places. I have to remember not to touch him if we're eating at a restaurant. And thankfully, it's a long time since we've been to anybody's dinner party.

My only theory is that it's his chi. He's done years of tai chi (his hand movements for that are also sexy as anything), so maybe he's developed some kind of energy that gets transferred to me. If only he could bottle it, he'd make a fortune.

Don't know why it only happens after dinner, though.

Omg my DH has a work laugh. He's recently changed jobs and I'm so grateful to not hear it anymore....he's just applied for something in his old field and much as the money would be better it's just not sexy!

When he wears a tuxedo. That's it!

leans back and puts his hands behind his head and his muscles show.
leans against the wall
when he looks at me and i can tell he's thinking I'm hot
Rolls his sleeves up
sits with his legs like.. open

oh when he works out or when hes sweaty .. Yum

I used to have a boyfriend who was a photographer. The way he did whatever it is one does with the film was attractively competent. I took better photos but still, he did that thing really well, whatever it was.

When he’s getting ready to go shooting. All that purposeful preparing the gun, cartridges and patting the excited lab, as he carries on. His jeans tucked into boots, making his thighs look longer, he shrugs into the Barbour, slings the gun slip over his shoulder, whistles the dog and off he goes. (swoon)

Picks up both our small children one in each arm

I get the belt thing OP, I had a crush on a guy I worked with and he used wear a leather belt and shoes. When he walked or moved around and the leather creaked it did things to me....😛

When I see him look at our children with that adoring look, or when he gives them sound advice and I just sit listening in.

Watching one tutorial on how to do something and getting it absolutely spot on first time, every time

This one isn’t a turn on, but does make me love him even more: when I hear him making up stories for our baby, doing all the voices for the characters he’s come up with. I always said he should write children’s books as he’s got such a brilliant imagination!

And when he picks up our little old lady cat and cuddles her so gently, talking to her in a squeaky voice 🥹

When they put their left arm on the back of the passenger seat when reversing- don't know why..

… and then at the end of the night he undies his bow tie (a proper hand tie one obviously), undies the top shirt button and leaves the tie just dangling. Bonus weak knees when he takes off the jacket and drapes it over my shoulders…. hmmmm …..

Reversing cameras have spoilt this moment for me now 🥺😁.

Years ago, driving in the countryside, DH spots a sheep stuck and distressed in a hedge. Alongside her were her two lambs bleating.
DH stops the car, runs out, frees the sheep and her two lambs start suckling on her immediately.
DH gets in the car, turns up Dire Straits on the radio and drives off without any reference to what had just happened.

Speaks French - I mean it's only tourist French, but good tourist French

Fits in somewhere quite posh so we get treated like we're someone - he's a public schoolboy, not super rich, but he speaks in a definite public schoolboy accent that garner attention in the right places

Fixes stuff (I grew up with a dad who was not at all practical, so it seems kind of special to me when DH reattaches a cupboard door with complicated fixings!)

Brings people into the conversation - he's good at spotting if someone's shy but wants to join a group or seems to be excluded, and finds ways to make sure they are included

I can parallel park really well. Maybe I should have an only fans page?

Wearing his glasses and when he gets flushed cheeks from manual work around the house or garden.

Dh is a builder; a tall, incredibly handsome, sought after and actually very well-educated builder, with an easy charm, polite manner and natural way with people. He’s got an amazing sense of humour and is kind and considerate in all areas including in bed. When I hear him managing his projects over the phone and see him in his cargo trousers, steel toe capped boots and hi viz I do think to myself… yeah…. I won the lottery there.