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Will they know I'm returning a different jumper?

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Vanderpumpblues981 · 08/09/2024 15:22

I bought my brother a green jumper online from M&S, to be delivered to my local m&s food Hall. I had an email saying delivery would be delayed. This would mean it wouldn't be here in time for his birthday tomorrow so today I drove to the nearest M&S clothes store (an hour away!) And bought the same jumper in yellow (green not in stock).

I've just got home to an email saying the green jumper in now waiting to be collected! I much prefer the green jumper. If I give it to my brother and return the yellow one to the m&s food hall saying they sent the wrong colour will they know its actually one that I bought at the clothes store?

I can't return the yellow one to the food hall and I don't have time to drive all the way back the clothes store to return it (plus it seems like a massive waste of fuel!).

Many thanks if you got this far without falling asleep!

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Vanderpumpblues981 · 08/09/2024 15:43

Copperoliverbear · 08/09/2024 15:40

If it's packaged you can return it to a food hall, pick up the green one then put the yellow one in the packaging in the car and return it and they will give you a receipt, make sure you bring sellotape.

Yeh that was my plan, then to write on the delivery note that the wrong colour was sent (which has actually happened to me before).

I think I'll just do it. I can't imagine the person in the warehouse will be bothered to investigate it when it's the same jumper/prive being returned, just a different colour.

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Happyher · 08/09/2024 15:45

Why don’t you take it back to the food hall and if they won’t take it, ask how you can return it.

AllstarFacilier · 08/09/2024 15:46

I bought a coat from next for DH as a gift, but he also bought it in the sale before his bday when I was going to give him it. I didn’t know which was which and took the sale one back with my original receipt, and they were able to tell it was the one he’d bought on his account at a reduced price. Not sure if there was a sticker barcode elsewhere, as we’d both bought online and I was returning to store, but the did know.

Owmyelbow · 08/09/2024 15:47

They're all unique bar codes so it won't work, but I don't understand why you can't just return it

Vanderpumpblues981 · 08/09/2024 15:50

Owmyelbow · 08/09/2024 15:47

They're all unique bar codes so it won't work, but I don't understand why you can't just return it

Because I can't be bothered to drive 2 hours to return it to store. According to the website there's no other way to return it.

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Bestthot · 08/09/2024 15:51

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Sandunesandseashells · 08/09/2024 15:53

Why not give him both? It would save spending more on fuel and your time to return it and brother benefits. Win win.

maudelovesharold · 08/09/2024 15:53

Won’t you, or someone you know (well enough to do you a favour!) be going somewhere with a proper M&S within the next 35 days? No need to panic! As pp have said, all details will be found in the barcode, which they always scan to make sure the receipt and the item match!

Gwenhwyfar · 08/09/2024 15:54

stripybobblehat · 08/09/2024 15:42

You didn't have to buy it though

Well she had to buy something as she'd been told her brother's birthday present wouldn't be delivered in time!

Itsallaloadofbollocks · 08/09/2024 15:54

Don't collect it. If you don't collect it they send it back to the warehouse and issue a refund.

jannier · 08/09/2024 15:55

Can you just return it to a m&s in the next 30 days?

maudelovesharold · 08/09/2024 15:57

Itsallaloadofbollocks · 08/09/2024 15:54

Don't collect it. If you don't collect it they send it back to the warehouse and issue a refund.

I think the one she has to collect is the colour she wants. She doesn’t want the one she bought as a second best choice.

Arlanymor · 08/09/2024 15:57

Give him both? Or send to someone, with the receipt, who lives near an M&S?

LivelyGoldOrca · 08/09/2024 16:02

You have 28 days to return in. I’m trying to figure out what location in 2 hours from an m and s. The clothes store is everywhere!

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suburburban · 08/09/2024 16:03

Take both to your db, he may like yellow one better?

stripybobblehat · 08/09/2024 16:04

maudelovesharold · 08/09/2024 15:57

I think the one she has to collect is the colour she wants. She doesn’t want the one she bought as a second best choice.

Then the 2nd best choice will have to do

hopefulnothelpful · 08/09/2024 16:04

Can you sell it on Vinted to save you the journey?

stripybobblehat · 08/09/2024 16:04

Gwenhwyfar · 08/09/2024 15:54

Well she had to buy something as she'd been told her brother's birthday present wouldn't be delivered in time!

Then presumably the yellow one is an acceptable choice. Just don't collect the other one or return it

Tbry24 · 08/09/2024 16:07

Vanderpumpblues981 · 08/09/2024 15:35

Because I ordered online to be delivered to a food hall but you can't return items bought at a clothes store to a food hall.

That’s the same as our food hall . They don’t do any refunds on any clothes at all.

GoldenLegend · 08/09/2024 16:08

I just wouldn’t collect the green one. Or am I missing something?

FiveTreeHill · 08/09/2024 16:08

If you return the yellow one and pretend they sent the wrong colour there's a reasonable chance they won't accept the refund, and you'll be a jumper down plus the money

Your options are:
Give your brother the yellow jumper
Return the yellow jumper to an M&S store at some point within the next 28days
Give him the green and keep the yellow

LivelyGoldOrca · 08/09/2024 16:09

Ooh its 35 days just checked…

stripybobblehat · 08/09/2024 16:09

GoldenLegend · 08/09/2024 16:08

I just wouldn’t collect the green one. Or am I missing something?

She wants the green one. Even though she has bought a yellow one

LivelyGoldOrca · 08/09/2024 16:09

But 14 for sale