How old were you when you stopped having sex.

[whatisforteamum]

I'm 57 and realised that I barely ever have sex now
Relationship issues and dh has had ED since a heart attack does have Viagra though.
I don't have much drive really tbh.
How old where you when you stopped having sex?

Think I'm done at 40
Endo has killed my drive off because of the constant ovary and back pain and feeling like I need the toilet every 5 mins

I was fine until 6 months ago and now I've never felt as unsexual in my life

Maybe I should seek help. I'm 88 and still playing.

Are you a man? @OldScribbler

I find that incredibly,touchingly sad,cruel - and wonder why/

Good for you keep enjoying ignore any negatives they're just jealous.😃

Yes: I've been married three times and lived with three others each for a fair length of time. I now live with my last ex-partner, her husband and little daughter. But I see other women. LIfe is full of surprises!

Knew you'd be a man no surprise there! Men can be on their death bed and still wanting sex. Can't imagine there are many women of 88 still desiring sex and still sexually active.
And why is the sex board full of men on a website aimed specifically at women ffs can't we have anything to ourselves.

52 and in a newish relationship (getting married in the autumn.) Hope to be at it like rabbits for some time to come!

45, 17 years ago. Neither of us could be arsed.

No issue relationship-wise at all.

We used to have a good sex life, no chandeliers involved but mutually satisfying, but gradually it dwindled away, and both of us were fine with it.

"Mumsnet was conceived in early 2000 when Justine Roberts embarked on a disastrous family holiday. Her idea was to create a website where parents could swap advice about not just holidays but all the other stuff parents talk about."

So what? Try not to be cantankerous. I'm not here to talk about sex in particular: this is the only time I have done so. All my other posts have been about other subjects. I have never heard in many years of a man wanting sex on his death bed.

40s and still happily rocking on. Hope to continue to do so.

l have a widowed friend in her late 60s who has 2 lovers, one of them is a little more than 10 years younger than her.

I remember you talking about pubic hair and erotic body hair on women very recently <grim>.

And?

Did I say I never talk about sex? And you do sound grim.

You literally said this is the only time I have done so - and yet there you were, on a thread about women’s pubic hair, talking about how erotic you find body hair…

I had an active sexlife until late dh became ill.

im 47 now. I doubt I’ll ever have sex again, as I’ll never have another relationship. I’m past all that now

57 or so. The menopause pretty much killed my libido stone dead. I'm 63 now.

Sorry, my memory is not infallible. Nor will yours be when you get to be very old. But if you had absolutely nothing better to do you would see that my comments are not normally about sex.

Oh I think most people (regardless of what age they are) don't claim they've never done something whilst calling a woman 'cantankerous' for questioning why a man is posting about his sex life on a women's forum - esp when that man has posted in the way he has.

Don't you have a life to live?

You should spend yours working on improving your memory.

If you ever get to my age or are even vaguely aware of how the memory is affected in old age you wouldn't make such a stupid suggestion.

Come on you two. A little mutual respect goes a long way.

Turning this back to the question ….2017 after having pelvic radiotherapy- got rid of the cancer but screwed everything else up!