New low for me , ghosted by my therapist

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Ive had a short course of therapy (12 sessions) 2nd time ive seen this particular therapist.

On our last session he said he didn't have any more room to see me and was fully booked untill next year. Offered links to other local therapists.

I have emailed twice 2 Weeks ago, 4 weeks ago) asking if he would reserve space for next year. No response.

I emailed from another account and got a response within 12,hours . Offering a trail session etc etc

I was going to therapy due to low self esteem and my "voice not being heard". ,seems even my therapist can ignore my voice 😔

Why ghost me , that just seems really unprofessional.

FFS I'm going to need therapy for my therapy !!

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A very valuable post.

WTF??

Therapists get fully booked but keep appointments free for assessments/trials… after which they’ll also be told they need to see another therapist or join a waiting list..
Dont take it personally, they often prioritise new referrals so they can assess need.

Find a new therapist.

I've been seeing my counsellor for 15 years. It has taken me this long to fully see so much that I could not see. My narcissist family ( I just couldn't see it). My own behaviour issues etc.
I really really dislike this notion that someone should have so many sessions and then you're all ok. And if you aren't, it's your failing.

I'm someone who would want therapy my entire life - but only with the right person. I've realised that so many people can practice, who really should not be doing so!

I agree wuth everything you say.

I also hate the idea that one is all 'done and dusted' in a certain timeframe. It is just not like that.

Therapy can be ongoing for the rest of someones life if they benefit from it.

Best wishes @Pantaloons99 x

There is therapy specifically designed to be time limited though, which I had. I liked the structured aspect and that I knew how much the financial outlay would be.

It was originally designed for use in the nhs where funds are limited but I had it privately.
Cognitive analytical therapy if anyone is interested.

I found it very effective.