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What do I wear to Taylor Swift - daughter just vetoed my outfit!

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Caplin · 06/06/2024 09:50

Hi,

Off to Taylor Swift on Saturday :-) Feeling like an excellent mother!

I was just going to wear jeans and a t shirt, maybe white jeans and a colourful new flowy top I just got. But she looked horrified that I wasn't making an effort!

I'm in a FB group and people are banging on about outfits, writing a 13 on your hand (no idea!), bracelets. What happened to just turning up and buying an overpriced T shirt?

Daughter picked out a new monsoon dress in yellow I just bought, which is fine for work or floating about on a sunny day, but I think I will feel like a frump at a concert!

I basically have no time now! Unless I head up to Murrayfield this afternoon and hit up the merch truck early....apparently it is already open!

I swear I am haemorrhaging money for Taylor Swift, and I live in the is bloody city!

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raffegiraffe · 10/06/2024 11:56

I'm going on Friday and I was happy with my jeans and T-shirt til about an hour ago, so I've just bought a few sequined things from Amazon on prime shipping to try. Probs will still go in jeans but at least now I have options 😊

soupmaker · 10/06/2024 12:31

@Caplin Glad you had a brilliant time, it was absolutely phenomenal. My girls were word perfect for the whole 3+ hours! Even I'm hoarse today.

I ended up wearing a lavender coloured sequinned top from the back of the wardrobe and bright red lipstick. But was very glad I wore jeans, boots and a jacket. Was cold after the shower in Edinburgh.

PlanningTowns · 10/06/2024 13:46

WEAR WHAT YOU WANT!

this is a very important message for your daughter! You DO NOT have to wear what others expect or require!

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MarthaDunstable · 10/06/2024 14:06

PlanningTowns · 10/06/2024 13:46

WEAR WHAT YOU WANT!

this is a very important message for your daughter! You DO NOT have to wear what others expect or require!

It was a very good lesson for the OP and her DD, that her DD is growing up, and sometimes she has good advice for her DM about subjects where she has more experience.

Listening to her daughter, and taking her advice, has made both of them happy. It's one of the bittersweet joys of parenting a teen - the magic moments when they know things you don't.

Rocketpants50 · 10/06/2024 14:41

My daughter is v excited to be taking me along in August - apparently I am going to love it. Am going to embrace it and am now taking inspiration from your yellow dress as not sure skimpy top and silver boots are me!

HearTheirEverywhere · 10/06/2024 15:59

We’re going on Friday, I’m getting excited now 💃

NoNameisGoodEnough · 12/06/2024 07:47

HearTheirEverywhere · 10/06/2024 15:59

We’re going on Friday, I’m getting excited now 💃

We're there Friday too. Weather not looking great. I have ponchos at the ready. I don't know many of her songs but I'm sure it will be a great atmosphere. I'm really excited. We were Take That last night so it is a busy week!

Porageeater · 12/06/2024 07:51

My teenage dd went in her jeans. Didn’t seem to be an issue. She had a fabulous time as will you.

Beenthereagainandagain · 12/06/2024 07:57

We will be at anfield on Friday night. Just a bit concerned about how/when to get there. We are staying with family across on the Wirral the night before so 25 mins away. We can get a lift but only at 3.30pm when entry is 4pm. So I’m thinking we need to make our own way but will it be possible to get an Uber? The train isn’t going to get us to where we need to be…
alternatively we could get a lift in around midday but then we’re hanging round for 4 hrs and anfield are asking people not to arrive before admission time…

HearTheirEverywhere · 12/06/2024 10:10

NoNameisGoodEnough · 12/06/2024 07:47

We're there Friday too. Weather not looking great. I have ponchos at the ready. I don't know many of her songs but I'm sure it will be a great atmosphere. I'm really excited. We were Take That last night so it is a busy week!

I don’t know many either, I can sing along to a few though 😂 definitely taking a cardigan and a poncho 😬

HearTheirEverywhere · 12/06/2024 10:38

Beenthereagainandagain · 12/06/2024 07:57

We will be at anfield on Friday night. Just a bit concerned about how/when to get there. We are staying with family across on the Wirral the night before so 25 mins away. We can get a lift but only at 3.30pm when entry is 4pm. So I’m thinking we need to make our own way but will it be possible to get an Uber? The train isn’t going to get us to where we need to be…
alternatively we could get a lift in around midday but then we’re hanging round for 4 hrs and anfield are asking people not to arrive before admission time…

I think you may struggle getting an Uber.
My daughter saw her in Edinburgh this weekend and they couldn’t get an Uber, she just managed to get the tram (loads getting on it).

We’ve resigned ourselves to walking back to the hotel from Anfield on Friday.

lucysmam · 12/06/2024 14:17

Well, my girls are now going half naked alongside me 🤷‍♀️ dd1's skirt hasn't arrived and neither has dd2's top.

I've been scrolling amazon but not finding much similar to the top - plenty of skirts though for dd1!

RobinEllacotStrike · 12/06/2024 16:12

10,000 beads have arrived and the bracelet making has commenced.

nicky2512 · 13/06/2024 14:38

Oh no @lucysmam I hope you get sorted today.
My dd bought a lovely sequin jacket from asos as she tends to be quite cold but if today’s anything to go by it will be rain coats we need!

lucysmam · 13/06/2024 14:41

Oh dear @nicky2512 ! I've been hoping the weather app on my phone has it wrong too 🙄

My parcel is out for delivery so now we pray to the Evri gods 🙏

nicky2512 · 13/06/2024 14:55

@lucysmam We’ll be having too much fun to notice! I haven’t been this excited about anything in years!
Fingers crossed for your outfits.

circular2478 · 13/06/2024 14:55

I'm going to the concert tomorrow. Hoping the rain holds off. A bit worried about getting to and from anfield (we're staying in a hotel near Albert dock). Any body got any tips?

MissAtomicBomb1 · 13/06/2024 15:37

NeedWineNow · 08/06/2024 10:17

Watching the report on the news this morning there looked like a lot of glitter, sequins and cowboy hats - even the blokes! It looks as though she was fabulous, you'll have a great time!

On a separate note I didn't know about the no no to wearing a band t-shirt. Me and DH are off to Stratford to see the Foo Fighters in a couple of weeks and we are both wearing Foos t-shirts. I'm fact I might even get a new one from the merch stall if we get there early enough 😁

You probably didnt know about it because it's absolute b*llocks! 😂
I've been to loads of gigs & concerts and there have always been loads (most?) wearing band T-shirts

NeedWineNow · 13/06/2024 17:32

MissAtomicBomb1 · 13/06/2024 15:37

You probably didnt know about it because it's absolute b*llocks! 😂
I've been to loads of gigs & concerts and there have always been loads (most?) wearing band T-shirts

@MissAtomicBomb1 😂😂😂

Rainbow21 · 13/06/2024 17:47

Yip, I can confirm after being at the Smashing Pumpkins/Weezer gig in Glasgow last night around 95% of people were wearing a band t-shirt 🤔. Im guessing the other 5% believe the rule which most of us have never heard of lol!! People just wear what you want - as my teenage daughter tells me frequently - you do you 😁

lucysmam · 13/06/2024 20:21

@MissAtomicBomb1 your nn is one of my favourite The Killers songs 🥰

I've just been overpacking & still have a pile of "must not forget" things on the kitchen table 🙈

MissAtomicBomb1 · 13/06/2024 20:51

lucysmam · 13/06/2024 20:21

@MissAtomicBomb1 your nn is one of my favourite The Killers songs 🥰

I've just been overpacking & still have a pile of "must not forget" things on the kitchen table 🙈

Ahh mine too! Going to see them live next month (wearing my Killers tshirt obviously 😂)
Hoping they play it 🤞🏻

lucysmam · 13/06/2024 20:53

🤣 I'm torn between my TK shirt from the last tour or Swim School from the last gig we went to. We're off to Manchester on Wednesday.

Dd1 looked up the set list from last night - I don't think it was on there.

MissAtomicBomb1 · 13/06/2024 21:18

They rarely play it, though they did when we went to see them at Emirates in 2022. Brandon nearly got fried in the pyrotechnics during the chorus 😱
Last nights set list looked great. Hope you have a brilliant time -They never disappoint!