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Postman keeps making lewd comments about my husband, should I make a complaint?

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wimsywon · 04/10/2023 13:10

We've lived at this address for seven years with the same postie throughout this time. Over the past year or so, our post man has starting making lewd comments about my husband and its become quite tiresome. Both hubby and I work from home, so either one of us runs to the door for deliveries. I now dread it! He never says anything inappropriate to my husband but when I go to the door, it's all lewd innuendo, targetted at my husband. Needless to say, the postman is a gay man and I have no issue with that. It's the constant suggestive comments and the fact that he can't seem to just hand us our mail with a pleasant greeting like he used to do. It just seems disrespectful and utterly cringe worthy! Should I complain to Royal Mail? Or should I let it go? The other neighbours seem happy with him, so the cringy chit chat seems to be aimed at us. It's horrible and both hubby and I hate it!

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pollymere · 06/10/2023 11:45

It's sexual harassment however you look at it. Tell him it's inappropriate. If he doesn't listen, report him.

Here4thechocs · 06/10/2023 12:30

Finlesswonder · 04/10/2023 13:16

Like what? "Here's a nice big hard package for bob, I hope he can take it"?

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 naughty ! 🤣

gandeysflipflop · 08/10/2023 11:55

Finlesswonder · 04/10/2023 13:16

Like what? "Here's a nice big hard package for bob, I hope he can take it"?

Brilliant🤣 this made me laugh out loud 🤣

Playingintheshadow · 10/10/2023 23:56

Shyam35 · 05/10/2023 20:26

It made me feel annoyed? Do you think that's sufficient in a court of law? We can all feel things about a lot of things but what was actually said matters.

What on EARTH has this got to do with a "court of law"? Don't be so ridiculous.

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