How angry: DD(11) walked through village in swimsuit?

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I'm very pissed off, with DD but mainly with the other parent, at the inappropriate-ness of letting a girl walk home from their house in a swimming costume. DH thinks it's hilarious and I'm over reacting.

DD(11) went to a friends house after school today. Friend lives on a farm on the outskirts of the village (1800 inhabitants), on the edge of the forest. They went swimming in their pool and I'd told DD she needed to be home at 6pm. She walked 5 minutes down the side road from the forest (where a lot of dog walkers park, 5 houses) then 10 minutes down one of the two main roads through the village to the centre where we live, wearing only her swimming costume with a towel around her shoulders.

I don't think this is appropriate and told her off for not getting changed.
DH doesn't see an issue with it.

What would your reaction be?

What;'s the issue was it raining or something?

I wouldn’t be bothered at all.

No issue at all

I wouldn’t care at all. I think it’s a none issue.

Would you feel the same if she was a boy?

I had to re-read this twice to see what I was missing

This is a total non-event, I wouldn’t care at all?

Presume she had shoes on? I don't see the problem, that'a how everyone walks around after swimming on holiday 🤷🏼‍♀️

Consider how many people see her exactly like that in a public swimming pool. It’s no big deal.

I would explain she should slip clothes on on top, but I wouldn’t be cross.

I don't think it's an issue.

What exactly are you angry about?

Is it coming from a place of concern? If so then you need to explain that to her, calmly.

Seriously - how are you going to cope when she's a teenager ?

Absolutely fine. YABU

Youre sexualising an 11-year-old. Have a word with yourself.

Absolutely no issue. Do you expect her to wear clothes on a public beach or at the pool?

I don't see why it's an issue - presumably she wasn't cold; she had a towel around her shoulders?

Massive over reaction.

Literally not an issue. Get some real problems!

Massively overreacting.

What’s the problem?

If it was a wet costume it may have been uncomfortable. But that ain’t a major issue.

I wouldn’t care - she’s a child who has just been for a swim. Unless it was very cold weather , which I assume it isn’t , I don’t see any problem with this.

🙁

I wouldn’t be angry, but would explain why clothes would be better.

Was she worried you were going to be angry if she was 10 minutes late?

Yeah, I wouldn't care about that.