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Tell Me...What songs do you want at your funeral?

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CurlyTandtheTangles · 13/08/2023 12:23

I know, bit morbid.
Tell me your songs (and why if you want cos songs are personal).

Today in my car I heard the song by Train - Drops of Jupiter. I think the lead person Pat wrote it after his mum died. And I thought "ummm could be on my shortlist."

Reasons why asking; I love music, need some inspiration, I always wonder why particular songs chosen when I'm at funeral.
Annoyingly my health running down hill. Treatment for leukaemia is lurking to put me (hopefully) into remission.
I am catastrophising today and thinking what if it all goes crap.
So my focus is on music. I don't want my lovely family picking all the music- it will be horrific! (Light-hearted but honestly urgh).

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JudyGemstone · 13/08/2023 12:25

Time to Move On by Tom Petty and the Heart Breakers.

JudyGemstone · 13/08/2023 12:28

I like how it’s not sad but hopeful and I think people might be comforted by it. Plus I just love him. RIP Tom 💔

“Yeah, it's time to move on, time to get going
What lies ahead, I have no way of knowing
But under my feet, baby, grass is growing
It's time to move on, time to get going”

PrincessHoneysuckle · 13/08/2023 12:28

Brown eyed girl at the beginning as I have brown eyes and it's dh ringtone for me.
Build me up buttercup at the end as its my go to karaoke song

Rotterdam · 13/08/2023 12:29

I’m not having a funeral but I think I would choose ‘white horses’ by Jacky. Loved the TV show and the song for most of my life.

DH was at a funeral recently where the coffin was brought in to ‘Ride of the Valkyrie’. It was a young man who had had time to plan his funeral.

CurlyTandtheTangles · 13/08/2023 12:30

JudyGemstone · 13/08/2023 12:25

Time to Move On by Tom Petty and the Heart Breakers.

Oh wonderful Tom... that's a good call 🤙

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ToughFuss · 13/08/2023 12:30

im so sorry for all your troubles, I hope better times are coming for you. I love that song, I’d forgotten all about it really until this thread!
I have always said wherever you will go by the calling and landslide by the Dixie chicks.. honestly though I’ve been to a few funerals lately for younger people and it’s just been their favourite songs, rather than overly appropriate ones if that makes sense? A good friend died in an accident and his parents played rhythm is a dancer while a video montage of all his best (and a lot of drunk!) moments played, they asked all of us to contribute. It was beautiful. So I guess on that basis, maybe a Tyler Childers song, Lady May or universal sound. Five Leaf Clover by Luke Combs is up there for sure.

BernadetteRostankowskiWolowitz · 13/08/2023 12:30

Any Lucky Penny by Nkcky Hassman
Perpetuum Mobile by the Penguin Light Orchestra

BeverleyMacker · 13/08/2023 12:31

Cry little sister from the Lost boys soundtrack. I've told people if it's not playing at my funeral,then I'm not going 😁

Sirzy · 13/08/2023 12:31

For good from Wicked because the lyrics are just right for something like that.

then Relight my fire at the end as I want to be cremated and send people home having a bit of a giggle.

FutureThroughLensOfThePast · 13/08/2023 12:33

None. I want to be disposed of quietly without ceremony.

imorange · 13/08/2023 12:33

Bright eyes- first day of my life
David Bowie- china girl

Unsure on what else

Oblahdeeoblahdoe · 13/08/2023 12:35

I heard 'It's the same old song' by the Four Tops on the radio the other day and thought I'd like it at my funerall/ cremation. Everyone knows I love dancing so I'd like everyone to dance and sing along while my coffin disappears behind the curtain

Uremindmeofthebabe · 13/08/2023 12:37

BeverleyMacker · 13/08/2023 12:31

Cry little sister from the Lost boys soundtrack. I've told people if it's not playing at my funeral,then I'm not going 😁

This is a TUNE!

FrillyGoatFluff · 13/08/2023 12:37

I'm having Good Riddance (Time of your Life) by Greenday. I'm ignoring the Good Riddance bit of the title 😂

And You've Got the Love by Florence and the Machine, was our first dance song. DH is having it too.

Both written into my will.

TotallyScouting · 13/08/2023 12:39

I want Good Riddance by Green Day. Whilst, it’s about a break up, I think the lyrics work for a funeral as it’s about moving on. I actually heard it for a first dance at a v fancy wedding once - I wondered if they’d ever actually listened to the words as it felt inappropriate! Needless to say it didn’t last 😃. Good luck with your treatment…

ScentlessAprentice · 13/08/2023 12:39

The Parting Glass by Liam Clancy
Keep Me In Your Heart by Warren Zevon

PotBelliesGiveGoodLoving · 13/08/2023 12:42

I want to go out to the theme from Police Academy.

Holidayvibes · 13/08/2023 12:44

I went to the funeral of a friends sibling as a teenager and they played Kiss me by sixpence none the richer and it has really stuck with me such a beautiful song.
I like wake me up when September ends, Wherever you will go and Iris.

CurlyTandtheTangles · 13/08/2023 12:44

BeverleyMacker · 13/08/2023 12:31

Cry little sister from the Lost boys soundtrack. I've told people if it's not playing at my funeral,then I'm not going 😁

TOP TUNE
(And I thought Denise used to dis you too much Beverley Macker)

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Thelnebriati · 13/08/2023 12:45

I'm not having one - I've left my body to my neurologist for medical science. Any left over bits will be cremated and disposed of.

Holidayvibes · 13/08/2023 12:45

Good riddance is an excellent song always on in my car love it!

Cherryana · 13/08/2023 12:46

Seasons In Love from the musical Rent
Feeling Good - Nina Simone
And then to just make sure everyone cries:
Fly by Celine Dion

IHateLegDay · 13/08/2023 12:47

I hope your treatment goes well and you fully recover!
My chosen song is:
If I ever leave this world alive - Flogging Molly

TheaBrandt · 13/08/2023 12:49

Dance while the music still goes on - Abba

FuckYouEzekiel · 13/08/2023 12:51

The Tetris tune.