What is an instant turn off to you?

[Rnm62]

What’s an instant turn off for you in a man/woman?

Playing computer games gets so much hate on Mumsnet. Each to their own but I’d much rather someone do that than have any interest in sports (and it so often seems to be one or the other)!

Fussy eater, and many of the above, especially being vain/mean with money/workshy/poor table manners - inc. eating with mouth open/holding knife like a pencil (petty I know).

Easily aggressive /anger, impatience,smelly,rude,possessive, jealous,

So funny a lot of you would absolutely hate my DH despite his nice hands, teeth and good bodily hygiene!

Anyone who can't do basic adult stuff such as keep himself, his clothes and home reasonably clean and tidy; work out a route from A to B and get there on time; budget, shop and cook for himself; find a job that pays enough to live on and hold it down.

Having no interest in politics.
Beards
Cycling as a hobby

Sure I can think of a few more…

Lack of intelligence
Vegan
Bandy legs
Not knowing the definition of a woman

How disappointing that people see not eating animals as a turn off! WTF?
Like, oh I just love to see a man eating dead stuff

I’m vegetarian but you’ve just captured the exact reason why people don’t want to date vegetarians and vegans. Attitudes like yours are just OTT. And if you’re so disgusted by meat eaters surely it’s not ‘disappointing’ since you wouldn’t want to date one anyway!

Mean spirited and/or mean with money. And Tory, obviously.

Smoking
Bad hygiene,
Rudeness to any person
Loud Nose breathing
Spitting
Poor eating manners
Obsession with material things

Me too! 😍

Voting Labour
Being vegetarian/vegan

Voting Tory
Eating meat

Any extreme politics...whichever side! is off putting for me

I agree. Any intolerance for another person's point of view or political leaning is an instance turn off.

Also spitting.

Vanity
Gym bods
Beards

Smoking and tattoos. Both vile

Ridiculous long, bushy hipster beards. Men with loads of visible tattoos, especially on the neck, face and hands.
Skinny trousers that end above the ankle, sockless and loafers.
Dyed hair, especially blonde highlights or solid "just for men" black.
Men who brag about their job and salary, who object to women drinking pints. Having no contact with their children and not being bothered about it.

Beards
Tattoos
Mean with money
Loud "life and soul of the party type"

Thank god so many of you hate tattooed men. All the more for me 😂

Turn offs for me - Tories, men who have children they don't see or pay for, bad hygiene, workshy, misogynistic.

Men that like watching sport. So time consuming. I find it really off putting.
Also, arrogance.

Oh yeah, men who actively follow a football team. I don't want my weekends revolving around football.

And men who say "all lives matter" and think blokes like Nigel Farage and Jeremy Clarkson are great.

My husband loves football but it suits me down to the ground as I have my own interests to follow and indulge my time in. He was a footballer when I met him and I fancied the pants off him and still do. I couldn’t watch it myself though, too boring.

All of my kids love it so he takes them too at the weekend and I get to be on my own which I also love.

I like my man to be manly but not chavvy. Big difference. Also kindness is so important. When I met him he was a lot kinder than many other frogs I had kissed along the way. So men lacking in empathy or kindness would be a huge turn off.