The sh*ttiest thing that someone has said to you?

[Houseofvelour]

What's the rudest/sh*ttiest thing that someone has said to/asked you?

Years ago, I was a bridesmaid for a (now ex) friend. I was blonde at the time and she asked me to dye my hair brown as she preferred it darker.
I did not dye my hair brown.

If that was the rudest thing anyone were to ever say to me, I'd count myself lucky

That is the worst thing anyone ever said to you?? Ever?

There's been a lot worse (my violent ex threatening to kill me 🙃) but this was by far the rudest.

I think you need to define in what context OP!

I mean I've had random men say all sorts of shit.

You're going to get a load of answers some of which will be pretty upsetting/ personal.

What sort of things are you after? Light hearted?

That i didn't know my abusive xh well enough before i got married. No shit.

I can take most insults, and have at work before. But a little shit of a friend calling teenage me ‘Thomas’ dicksleeve’ really hit me. I don’t think I’ve ever actually yelled at someone like that before or since. It was a wonderful feminist diatribe and very therapeutic

Friend's mother telling people that the last time she had seen me was a year previous when I was half the size I was now and 6 months pregnant. The silence that followed was enough to confirm I was right in thinking she was a cunt.

You've led a charmed life so far, op.

That she felt sorry for my unborn child, they would grow up confused not knowing what colour they were (we're a mixed race couple)

My father once said that I was completely & absolutely useless & he wished I’d never been born. I’d gone to the loo & paused a video I was watching, & missed a reminder to record something he’d programmed. He was always horrible to me when he was drunk. I left & didn’t speak to him for several months.

@GreyhoundG1rl

You've led a charmed life so far, op.

Couldn't be further from the truth but how nice that you can make assumptions on my entire life from 2 sentences. Quite a skill you have there.

Your post literally said this was the shittiest thing that had ever been said to you?

Random bloke in pub when I was about 19. You're such a pretty girl but why do you eat so much. Destroyed my self esteem.

My father once said that I was completely & absolutely useless & he wished I’d never been born. I’d gone to the loo & paused a video I was watching, & missed a reminder to record something he’d programmed. He was always horrible to me when he was drunk. I left & didn’t speak to him for several months.

This is just awful. Sorry you experienced this.

My BILs mother, at a birthday celebration for him, said to me "I only wish I had your confidence to not care what I look like"
I was so taken aback I did not reply and she moved on to her next victim.

@GreyhoundG1rl

Your post literally said this was the shittiest thing that had ever been said to you?

Yeh, or the rudest. This was pretty damn rude. I started the thread as I find it fascinating hearing people's stories. No one is obliged to share anything truly hurtful or traumatic. Just what they feel comfortable sharing.

A company that I worked for was going through a cost cutting exercise and pressurised and bullied staff so badly that some, including me, became ill. If I’d stuck it out, I would have got a substantial redundancy package due to length of service, 23 years, but in the end I quit as my mental health was more important. They literally drove me crazy. On the day I left, my manager told me he was glad I and others were leaving as the company was paying him a £2,000 bonus for every senior staff member that left without a package. Bastard.

just walking through town and a bloke tapped me on shoulder. you would be pretty if you lost weight.

i mean you are not pretty right now you fat cunt, but you know...

My mother telling my husband "I pity you being married to her".

Not said to me, but to my devastated 17 year old sil, at my fil's funeral. I didn't like your father, at all, but i respected him.

"You'd have thought all your teenage spots would have gone before you started getting grey hairs..."

@DeeplyCheesedOffWithLife

"You'd have thought all your teenage spots would have gone before you started getting grey hairs..."

Ha! This has reminded me:

“If I were you I’d be praying to Mary* to make you pretty and take away your spots” (nutcase aunt, when I was 15).

• the blessed virgin mother of God!

I was always pretty. And clever. She didn’t like it one bit! Still doesn’t. Ha ha.

"I don’t want half Black children" (whilst pregnant with his child). I had the baby who is now a teenager and never saw him again.

Ex number one after 6 years together: "I never loved you, I just used you for regular sex"

Ex number two after 21 years together: "I don't love you, never have, never found you attractive, etc"

Been single ever since and that's the way it's going to stay!

My dad to me, " you should have been a miscarriage "
Random guy in the pub " nice tits, shame about the face "....