I just got called a whale

[Millionaireinthemaking]

For context
I gave birth 6 months ago. Had 2 children in the space of 18 months. I’m 11st 5ft4 size 14...
is this really society’s version of being a “whale” now days? I’ve been trying my best to loose weight but this has really hurt me. Why do people have to be so evil

Who said it?

Who called you this? They are an utter twat. Do not give it any headspace. Distance yourself from this imbecile.

You are a beautiful mother of two. Don't let anyone make you feel differently.

Evil nasty people will say anything to try & hurt others including stuff that isn't even true!

Sorry you've encountered this idiot but based on what you've posted you are far from a whale!

Very very close friend!

Wtaf. Some people are so rude! Regardless of whether you have given birth, regardless of your body shape, this is completely unacceptable. Who said this to you? If a stranger ignore them, if a friend you need new friends.

Congratulations on your baby and ignore this nasty comment.

I know it’s not easy but try and ignore it, that person was just being a nob and it’s them, not you, that’s the problem

@Millionaireinthemaking

Very very close friend!

Wtf!!! In those exact words?

That person isn't your friend OP. Ignore, ignore, ignore.

@Millionaireinthemaking

Very very close friend!

What?? Why would they say that? What did you say in reply?

You’ve just made me well up!

Really? Omg

Jeez could you give the context? I just can't imagine a conversation where a "friend" drops this in without knowing they are probably ending the friendship forever.

We was waiting to leave...
They said “get up you whale” and it was not said in a jokey way either!

Close friend? With friends like that, eh?

What did they say exactly?

@Millionaireinthemaking

We was waiting to leave... They said “get up you whale” and it was not said in a jokey way either!

Oh op, that person is not a good friend to you

@Millionaireinthemaking

Very very close friend!

No, they arent

Your friend needs to fuck right off. Two children in 18 months takes a toll on the body, and besides that, 11st at 5ft 4 is hardly morbidly obese. Was she trying to be funny?

X post.
Tell them to fuck off.

When you say very very close friend, do you actually mean friend or is this a partner/father of your child?

Ouch.

Firstly, no, you’re very far from being a whale.
And secondly, your friend was being deliberately unkind. They’re the one with the problem, not you.

I did say “a whale?” Then they ignored me! I left without them! I’m glad I’m not overreacting! At one point I thought maybe I should go back!

Wow what a great friend ! I’d ditch the nasty twat tbh !

You sound fine as you are op sorry you are upset

Doesn't matter what size you are, no one has a right to call you a whale. Bin friend.

I’m glad you left them op! They need to explain and apologise but I can’t imagine what the explanation could be

Omg this would be the end of the friendship for me. What a bitch!!!