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Friend claiming she got pregnant like this?

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Retuols · 11/06/2021 07:05

Friend claiming she is pregnant after her partner went half way inside her for 4 seconds and didn’t ejaculate Confused

Is this actually possible?! This is a close friend and in a weird way it’s made me feel distant from her as it clearly seems to be a lie?! Not she’s why it’s bothered me, maybe because I feel like she’s lying and we are very close.

OP posts:
Bluntness100 · 11/06/2021 07:06

What? Why would she tell you that level of detail?

TheQueef · 11/06/2021 07:06

You need this.

Friend claiming she got pregnant like this?
Isadora2007 · 11/06/2021 07:06

Yes pre ejaculate contains sperm so it’s entirely possible to get pregnant that way.

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Bagelsandbrie · 11/06/2021 07:07

Of course it’s possible.

That’s why the withdrawal method is unreliable!

Retuols · 11/06/2021 07:08

@Isadora2007 for four seconds half way in?!

@Bluntness100 because she said she was surprised and confused by it

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HelloDulling · 11/06/2021 07:09

Possible. Hugely unlikely. Weird thing for her to tell you.

Bksjshsbbev2737 · 11/06/2021 07:09

Yes of course it’s possible

lovelybitofsquirrell · 11/06/2021 07:12

Yea it's possible. Why are you so concerned?

TheQueef · 11/06/2021 07:12

It's biologically possible if he had recently ejaculated, some sperm remained and then they released in precum.
Possible but not probable.

Sparklingbrook · 11/06/2021 07:13

What a wonderful way to announce a pregnancy. Different.

StevieNix · 11/06/2021 07:13

It’s technically possible but I would think extremely rare. That’s why the pull out method is bullshit, pre-ejaculate does contain sperm so it could be possible

picklemewalnuts · 11/06/2021 07:14

Yes. Friend and husband are super fertile. They conceived without proper penetration.

AllTheUsernamesAreAlreadyTaken · 11/06/2021 07:15

You can get pregnant from non penetrative sex (although admittedly that’s very, very unlikely) so of course you can from a penis going inside for a few seconds.
Any sperm around the vaginal area risks pregnancy.

BernadetteRostankowskiWolowitz · 11/06/2021 07:15

Halway in is still in.
4 seconds in is still in.

Are you one of those people who also thinks you cant fall pregnant if you have sex standing up/in the ocean?

AllTheUsernamesAreAlreadyTaken · 11/06/2021 07:16

@Sparklingbrook

What a wonderful way to announce a pregnancy. Different.
😂😂😂 Can’t wait for the gender reveal!
RodiganReed · 11/06/2021 07:18

Why would she make it up? Is she trying to 'excuse' an unplanned pregnancy, does she think you might judge her in some way?

Retuols · 11/06/2021 07:19

@RodiganReed not sure just seems impossible surely! Don’t think her partner wanted another hence why they stopped apparently

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OldWivesTale · 11/06/2021 07:22

I think you need to get a life 😂 Why do you care?

MadameMinimes · 11/06/2021 07:23

Why on earth would she lie?
It’s rare but definitely biologically possible. People get pregnant using the withdrawal method all the time. 4 seconds is a short period of time but long enough to transfer pre-ejaculate into a vagina.

custardbear · 11/06/2021 07:23

Yes of course it's possible, it introduces sperm to the vagina, sperm moves itself and is aided in motility and environmental conditions within the cervical mucous - all the right conditions must have been lined up - baby

ShinyGreenElephant · 11/06/2021 07:24

@Sparklingbrook Grin

Sparklingbrook · 11/06/2021 07:26

[quote Retuols]@RodiganReed not sure just seems impossible surely! Don’t think her partner wanted another hence why they stopped apparently[/quote]
Well clearly not impossible if she's pregnant. Unless she has form for lying and it's actually someone else's baby? Confused Or she's not pregnant at all.

Coincidentally a friend told me she was pregnant yesterday, I will ask her exactly how today if oversharing is the new thing these days...

Gunpowder · 11/06/2021 07:26

I know from personal experience this is possible, although it’s not something I would share except on an anonymous forum!

ATowelAndAPotato · 11/06/2021 07:28

Yep, definitely possibly!

grapewine · 11/06/2021 07:28

This is a close friend and in a weird way it’s made me feel distant from her as it clearly seems to be a lie?!

It's not clearly a lie. But do tell her you think she's full of it... She deserves to know what her 'friend' thinks about her