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Friend claiming she got pregnant like this?

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Retuols · 11/06/2021 07:05

Friend claiming she is pregnant after her partner went half way inside her for 4 seconds and didn’t ejaculate Confused

Is this actually possible?! This is a close friend and in a weird way it’s made me feel distant from her as it clearly seems to be a lie?! Not she’s why it’s bothered me, maybe because I feel like she’s lying and we are very close.

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ddl1 · 11/06/2021 10:31

Yes, it's possible. Not common, but not at all impossible. Many unwanted pregnancies have resulted from people relying on the 'withdrawal method', which is based on the assumption that you can't get pregnant under such circumstances. Less likely to? Certainly. Impossible? Definitely not!

Emmelina · 11/06/2021 10:38

It’s possible, but not very likely!
More likely is that time he went more than halfway inside her for more than 4 seconds (or the time someone else did Wink)

BrownEyedGirl80 · 11/06/2021 10:45

It's totally possible.I came on expecting to read that she'd got pregnant via oral or anal.

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Whyhello · 11/06/2021 10:45

Yep it’s possible. A girl at school got pregnant when she lost her virginity even though she said it hurt too much so he could barely penetrate. He didn’t finish, it didn’t last very long and he barely penetrated her but she still ended up getting pregnant. Pre-cum can contain sperm, not always but sometimes it does and that’s all it takes really.

You can actually get pregnant without penetration at all if they ejaculate close to the vagina and it, for want of a better term, drips down… So technically a virgin could get pregnant although not in the style of Mary.

Damnloginpopup · 11/06/2021 10:47

At least she knows the father was Justin.

Lindy2 · 11/06/2021 10:52

Why do you think she's lying? What do you think actually happened?

Damnloginpopup · 11/06/2021 10:56

Not just agony aunts. I freelance for a magazine and have to invent my own copy for the Q&A page specific to my branch of the sport. There's 6 or 7 Q&A pages each month. I loathe it. I've had three genuine questions in four years...and I'd already made those up anyway.

MrsBobDylan · 11/06/2021 10:56

Was he only half way in or does he have a small cock? I think you need to establish that before we make a decision.

ittakes2 · 11/06/2021 10:58

Just google it for goodness sake. There is sperm in the fluid before ejaculate. Its possible to get pregnant if this only goes near the vagina even. It only takes one strong swimmer!

Bluesheep8 · 11/06/2021 11:01

Why do people have to overshare every single minute detail of their lives? Confused

Ozanj · 11/06/2021 11:05

Yes it is possible. I’m half Indian and I got told once by a doctor that most Indian men have penises that are 4 inches long fully erect yet that country has the highest birthrate in the world. Practically all of the cultures there use (or try to use) the pull out method for contraception!

JinglingHellsBells · 11/06/2021 11:21

We were aware of this as teenagers, 40 years ago.

I am shocked a grown woman doesn't know.

HumansAreShocking · 11/06/2021 11:29

Who times these things?!

Poppynit · 11/06/2021 11:29

Definitely possible, that’s how I became pregnant!

justanotherneighinparadise · 11/06/2021 11:30

Too much detail.

Motnight · 11/06/2021 11:39

Sparklingbrook, in this instance it isn't the eyes that you need to avoid 👀

FortunesFave · 11/06/2021 11:40

Doctor told me it can happen WITHOUT penetration. If genitals are close together and there's precum or ejaculate.

LordOfTheOnionRings · 11/06/2021 11:43

I would put this on the Christmas cards

LordOfTheOnionRings · 11/06/2021 11:44

Roses are red,
Violets are blue,
Did I get you up the fluff
When I pre-cummed inside of you?

SirenSays · 11/06/2021 11:51

So weird, I had a dream last night this same thing happened to me. I pushed the hunk off remembering in a panic I wasn't on BC but it was too late haha.

BrilliantBetty · 11/06/2021 12:07

Why do you think she's lying? What do you think actually happened?

.. this is what I was going to ask.

Why would she lie? What would she be hiding?

Pinkblueberry · 11/06/2021 12:15

@Ozanj What does penis size have to do with it? I don’t think anyone’s ever suggested small penis = less likely to get you pregnant.

AllTheUsernamesAreAlreadyTaken · 11/06/2021 13:02

[quote Pinkblueberry]@Ozanj What does penis size have to do with it? I don’t think anyone’s ever suggested small penis = less likely to get you pregnant.[/quote]
That’s actually exactly what scientific research suggests.

VeganVeal · 11/06/2021 13:18

Halfway in for some men is full way in for others!

drawerofwater · 11/06/2021 13:54

Why would she lie…and why are you being so weird about it

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