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Do I message him?

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Ouchmyheadhurts · 14/09/2019 18:07

I have noticed that My ‘one that got away’ is now single (via Facebook).... we were together S teens.... had a dalliance in our 20’s, brief contact a couple of years ago but he then started a new relationship. He’s now single... I’m so tempted to message him..... do I???

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Original poster
Ouchmyheadhurts · 14/09/2019 18:26

Iv done it Shock

Waiting for the block now!

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LateMumma · 14/09/2019 18:27

You'll always wonder what if, give it a go and good luck!

incognitomum · 14/09/2019 18:27

He won't block you. Has he read it?

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Ouchmyheadhurts · 14/09/2019 18:29

No it’s delivered but not read.

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PrincessHoneysuckle · 14/09/2019 18:35

What did u put?

RosesFan · 14/09/2019 18:37

Was about to say nothing ventured, nothing gained. Hope he replies Smile

Alwaysthesun · 14/09/2019 18:39

Why would he block you?

Original poster
Ouchmyheadhurts · 14/09/2019 18:39

I just said hi how are you? X Shock

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Ouchmyheadhurts · 14/09/2019 18:41

Feel a bit sick now..

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incognitomum · 14/09/2019 18:48

You'll survive. It's not as if he lives near you.

WifOfBif · 14/09/2019 18:48

Ahh I love these threads!

Good luck OP, nothing to lose!

OpenYourEyes · 14/09/2019 18:50

Good luck, what is for you won't go past you, so if its meant to be.....

SparklyMagpie · 14/09/2019 18:53

Good luck OP! If you don't try you'll never know eh?

I know I'd do it after a glass of wine for courage 😂
But I'll always take a risk...aslong as it doesn't out me in danger

Fingers crossed

WizardOfAus · 14/09/2019 19:03

Oooohh. Good luck!

Original poster
Ouchmyheadhurts · 14/09/2019 19:05

I’m a firm believer in what will be will be.....
still not read. saturday evening to be fair....

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Missymare · 14/09/2019 19:08

Good luck

Wonkydonkey44 · 14/09/2019 19:08

Good luck Wink hope he messaged you back

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Ouchmyheadhurts · 14/09/2019 19:09

I hope he does too!

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Pieceofpurplesky · 14/09/2019 19:09

Good luck

Juog · 14/09/2019 19:10

Just say hi sweetie or whatever, so nice to see you on here, go for it or you will never know and always wonder.

666onmyhead · 14/09/2019 19:10

Oooh exciting! ( blatant place marking ) anyone want a crisp ? I have peanuts too ?!

TheQueens · 14/09/2019 19:10

Ahhh good luck OP, I have a similar love story and we are now married with a baby Grin please update!

InTheTempest · 14/09/2019 19:10

Good luck OP 🤞 I would have messaged him if I were in your shoes too. You've nothing to lose and better to not be thinking what if...

IndieTara · 14/09/2019 19:12

Fingers crossed for you op

shivermetimbers77 · 14/09/2019 19:13

Fingers crossed for you OP!