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Do I message him?

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Ouchmyheadhurts · 14/09/2019 18:07

I have noticed that My ‘one that got away’ is now single (via Facebook).... we were together S teens.... had a dalliance in our 20’s, brief contact a couple of years ago but he then started a new relationship. He’s now single... I’m so tempted to message him..... do I???

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Youreterriblemuriel99 · 28/09/2019 08:48

Yes I agree - he wants you to text rather than message on messenger. Don’t go back immediately - later today or tmrw. When you do, just send a friendly message asking how things are etc

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Ouchmyheadhurts · 28/09/2019 09:00

Oh god I replied sorry Blush

They have broken up but recently so I’m very aware of that.... just been chatting.......

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Awks · 28/09/2019 09:11

Keep calm and carry on chatting if you like but try your absolute best to not google wedding venues or anything just yet 😂Keep your head together and keep posting on here!

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whatthehek · 28/09/2019 09:16

I'd tread very carefully. Sounds like something you don't really need to get caught up in tbh.

MrsAJ27 · 28/09/2019 09:43

How strange...be careful

Imstickingwiththisone · 28/09/2019 12:20

Why on Earth would anyone respond to 'how are you?' with 'do you want a quote?' unless you're trying to make the conversation look like something else. He sounds sleazy op.

ChicCroissant · 28/09/2019 13:30

Do you think you are the only woman that he has messaged with that 'do you want a quote' line, OP Hmm

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Ouchmyheadhurts · 28/09/2019 13:59

Long story but his ex has been monitoring everything ... had his passwords.... she punched him.... he didn’t want to talk on fb. We’re chatting..... that’s all for now

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whatthehek · 28/09/2019 14:29

🙄

rosedream · 28/09/2019 15:22

Sounds interesting ouch. Have fun chatting. Smile

ChicCroissant · 28/09/2019 16:36

Do you think she's monitoring him because he talks to women online when he's in a relationship? Like you?

Why would you want to have a relationship with someone you have already broken up with twice and is a proven liar as well?! You can do better than this, unless you want to be the next one wondering about his 'quotes'.

carrottopper · 01/10/2019 12:27

He needs to change his passwords then! Especially if she is an ex- she has no right to be monitoring his conversations

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