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Discover the best wand massagers and vibrators that Mumsnet users rate themselves

Achieve deep, powerful orgasms within a matter of seconds with help from one of the best wand massagers available.

By Kat Romero & Rebecca Roberts | Last updated Nov 28, 2023

Best wand massagers: browse LELO, Moregasm+, Doxy

In the world of sex toys, wand massagers hold a timeless appeal. Originating in the 1970s, these devices adhere to the age old saying: if it's not broken, don't fix it. Regarded as the top choice for clitoral stimulation, the best wand massagers are powerful wands that have been meticulously engineered to precisely target your clitoris to help you achieve deep and powerful orgasms. These pleasure tools are perfect for solo indulgence and for igniting bedroom fervour with a partner.

Of course, when searching for the best of the best, we turned to our trusty Mumsnet community for their impartial and genuine recommendations. Our users have tried and tested a range of products to see whether they’re worth the price tag. To make sure we include only the top picks, we also:

  • Tested products ourselves within the MNHQ team, so we know we're only including products we'd personally recommend

  • Consulted experts like Lucy Rowett, Sex Coach at The Lowdown, to make sure the ones included are body-safe and designed specifically for pleasure

  • Cross-referenced customer reviews on sites like Ann Summers and Lovehoney

So, whether you need something small and discreet for travel, something curved or flexible for pleasure or something extra powerful for the deepest orgasm, we’ve got you covered. Read on for our guide to the best wand massagers of 2023, as recommended by Mumsnet users.

If you're in need of other sex essentials, don't miss our guides to the best sex toys for women (including toys that target your G-spot), best sex toys for couples, best massage oils, best sex games, and for affordable options, the best cheap sex toys currently available.

Editor's picks

Ann Summers’ Self Love Massage Wand, £48
Ann Summers' Self Love Massage Wand

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Best wand massagers: at a glance

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Best overall

Ann Summers’ Self Love Massage Wand, £48

What we like
  • Multiple intensity settings

  • Clit stimulation and body massager

  • Rechargeable

  • Easy to clean

  • Comes with discreet storage bag

What we don't like
  • Expensive

  • Large size could appear bulky

Key specs

RRP on writing: £48 | Size: 1.75" diameter | Material: Silicone | Colours: Purple and gold | Power: Rechargeable via USB

What Mumsnet users say
WW86 · Tried & Tested
So I got this new toy, Ann Summers magic wand rechargeable thing.... omg is all... so I came literally within about a minute, so carried on and came a further 2 times... then all of a sudden, I think I wee'd myself!!!! Quite A lot!
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Our verdict

Don't miss: MNHQ editor, Rebecca, puts Ann Summers' Self Love Massage Wand to the test. Read her full review here.

When you think of sex toys and all things fun and exciting in the bedroom, you think of Ann Summers. This wand is beautifully designed with a purple silicone body and splashed of vintage gold. 

It’s a versatile toy as it has multiple functions and intensity settings. Reviews say it’s ideal for self-pleasure or for fun with a partner. It’s easy to clean with the brand’s Buzz Fresh Wipes and it comes with a cotton bag, which offers discreet storage in your bedroom.

Some reviews have claimed that this is a bulkier item compared to some toys, so it may not be the best for travel. But the five-star reviews make it clever that if your objective is a powerful orgasm, you’re going to achieve that in seconds.


Best budget

Lovehoney 3-Speed Micro Magic Wand Vibrator, £20

What we like
  • Great price point

  • Battery-operated

  • Easy grip

  • Flexible neck 

What we don't like
  • Not for anal use

  • Loud noise

Key specs

RRP on writing: £20 | Size: Circumference: 3.5 inches, length: 4.5 inches | Material: Body-safe silicone and hard plastic | Colour: White | Power: Battery-powered, 2 x AAA

What Mumsnet users say
AkimboLimbo · Tried & Tested
The rumbly vibrations are very deep and powerful. I haven't tried it but I suspect it could make me orgasm through my clothes.
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Our verdict

This choice on our list of the best wand massagers may be small, but it’s also mighty. The design offers you a comfortable grip and it has a flexible neck that’s designed to hit every spot. With its powerful motor and easy-to-use controls, this sex wand with wand vibes is a must-have for anyone looking for a satisfying experience.

There’s a choice of three-speeds with different intensity levels to suit beginners and your liking, plus the battery-powered option means you don’t have to worry about having a mains outlet for charging. Additionally, this device has different patterns of vibration modes to enhance your experience.

It's worth mentioning, though, that this one is not for anal use so if that is your thing, it may not be the product for you. Some reviews claim it’s also very noisy so it’s not ideal for discreet use. But for less than £20, it’s a great price and the glowing reviews suggest it’s truly effective. So, if you're looking for a wand toy, this product may be a great option.


Best waterproof

What we like
  • Waterproof

  • 10 vibration settings for versatility

  • USB rechargeable

  • Achieves deep and powerful orgasms

  • Quiet and discreet

What we don't like
  • Pricier than other options

Key specs

RRP on writing: £80 | Material: Softest, dual density silicone | Colour: Turquoise | Power: Rechargeable via USB

What Mumsnet users say
jainaproudm · Tried & Tested
Classy looking, rechargable, feel amazing, waterproof... Honestly, just the best luxury toys I've ever owned!
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Our verdict

This is one of the best wand massagers that does what it says on the tin. Essentially, it's the key to achieving even more, stronger orgasms - and as the many glowing reviews say, those orgasms are likely to be deeper and more powerful. Plus, with its long battery life, you can enjoy the wand's benefits for longer periods of time.

Best of all, it’s waterproof so you can use as much lubrication or oil as you wish. It’s also quieter than some wands so it’s perfect for discretion and there’s ten vibration settings to suit your desire. So, this waterproof wand is perfect for those who want to enjoy their toys in the bath or shower without worrying about water damage.

The one downside is the higher price point compared to other options on our list, but if you have the money, we suggest this is one investment you won’t regret.


Best cordless

What we like
  • Waterproof

  • 10 different settings

  • Rechargeable

What we don't like
  • Higher price tag

Key specs

RRP on writing: £150 | Material: Silicone | Colour: Blue | Power: Rechargeable battery

What Mumsnet users say
FellatrixLestrange · Tried & Tested
LELO is definitely my preferred brand and this wand is my favourite toy. Its vibrations are strong and steady but never uncomfortably intense. It feels good to hold due to its ergonomic design and it looks great.
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Our verdict

There’s no denying that £150 is a huge amount to pay for a sex toy and definitely out of budget for many of us. But if you are looking to splurge on something that will bring you pleasure, this wand by LELO is a safe bet.

Best of all, it’s cordless so you don’t need to worry about buying batteries or plugging it in to work. Plus, it looks good and customers say the design feels like silk on the skin... Earning it a place in our best wand massagers roundup!


Best corded

What we like
  • For clitoral stimulation and massage

  • Multiple speeds

What we don't like
  • Very expensive

Key specs

RRP on writing: £150 | Size: 37cm body length, 6cm head diameter | Material: Aluminium, silicone | Colour: Purple and black | Power: Mains powered, cable length 3m

What Mumsnet users say
Bexx87 · Tried & Tested
Doxy Wand. Strong, powerful vibrations that rumble through your entire body and speedily take your orgasm to the next level, due to being able to plug into the wall. Also good to massage other areas of your body. Long cable so you can plug it in almost anywhere and it will reach you. It fits so well in your hand due to the shape and size and the head of the vibrator is so much more smooth and luxurious compared to other types.
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Our verdict

Once again, we know that £150 is a huge amount for one of the best wand massagers. This is also mains-powered, which many may see as an inconvenience. However, this high quality option is great for clitoral stimulation as well as body massage and the silicone head is easy to wipe clean. The design is modern and sleek and there’s a good choice of speed settings to ensure you reach climax quickly.


Best wand massager on Amazon

Oliver James Wand Vibrator, £18

What we like
  • Variety of colours

  • Also good for sore neck

  • Water-resistant

  • Flexible design for maximum pleasure

What we don't like
  • Noisy

Key specs

RRP on writing: £18 | Sizes:  22.2 x 7.49 x 4.9 cm | Material: Silicone | Colour: Purple, black, peach and pink | Power: Battery powered

Our verdict

Amazon is an ideal place to find affordable and useful products that can be delivered right to your door, and for those in search of a new massager - the Oliver James vibrator is a perfect purchase. Not only is it an affordable price but it comes in a variety of colour options to suit your taste.

The design of this one is flexible so you’re guaranteed to hit those hard-to-reach spots. It’s also great for alleviating sore and stiff necks. Some reviews have complained that it’s very noisy, though, so that might be worth considering if you need to spare your blushes.


Best rechargeable

Lovehoney Ultra Violet Powerful Silicone Rechargeable Wand, £45

What we like
  • Extra powerful

  • Waterproof

  • Rechargeable

What we don't like
  • Not ideal if you’re very sensitive

Key specs

RRP on writing: £45 | Sizes: Circumference: 5.75 inches, length: 9.5 inches | Material: Silicone | Colour: Variety | Power: Rechargeable battery

Our verdict

This toy is great if you want to ramp things up a bit. As the product description says, it packs a mighty punch.

If sex toys haven't worked for you in the past, this may be the one to convince you as reviewers say they achieved orgasms in seconds. The one downside is that some reviews say even the lowest setting is still highly powerful, which may not work for you if you’re sensitive down there and want something a bit more gentle.


Best for travel

Lovehoney Dream Wand Rechargeable Mini Massage Vibrator, £35

What we like
  • Travel-size

  • Firm grip

  • USB chargeable for power anywhere

What we don't like
  • Vibrations can be a bit too powerful

Key specs

RRP on writing: £35 | Sizes: Circumference: 5 inches, length: 8 inches | Material: Silicone | Colour: Black | Power: Rechargeable via USB

Our verdict

This is the perfect mini to take with you on weekends away. The small design means it’s easy to pack and the design’s built-in grip makes it so easy to use. It’s also easy to charge using USB, which means you can ensure it has power no matter where you are in the world. 

One thing is for sure with this wand. Despite its small size, it’s a powerful tool. Maybe too powerful for some reviewers, who said even the gentlest vibration was too much for them. 


Best for G-spot stimulation

AUPLAY Heating Magic Wand Massage Stick, £30

What we like
  • Great for use all over the body

  • Heated for a more powerful use

  • USB fast charging

  • Double ended

What we don't like
  • Vibrations may be too gentle

Key specs

RRP on writing: £30 | Sizes: 25.8 x 9.2 x 4.8 cm | Material: FDA medical Silicone | Colour: Black | Power: Fast USB charging

Our verdict

If you want to elevate your experience, this design from AUPLAY is heated, is double ended and it can improve the sensations and your pleasure. It’s also quick to heat up which is ideal for those times when you just want to get stuck in.

The only downside is some reviewers say the vibrations are on the gentle side. Perfect if you prefer something softer but not ideal if you need that power.


Best mini wand massager

Moregasm+ Petite Wand, £52

What we like
  • Good size for travel

  • Great choice of vibrations

  • Waterproof

What we don't like
  • For external use only

Key specs

RRP on writing: £52 | Material: Silicone | Colour: Pink | Power: Rechargeable

Our verdict

This mini option from Ann Summers' Moregasm+ range is ideal for easy storage or taking it away with you on a naughty weekend. The design features a curved head, which is designed to reach a wider surface area and increase your pleasure. It’s waterproof and features 10 vibration settings, ideal for any preference. Despite its small size it’s powerful and effective. 


Best luxury

Le Wand Rechargeable Massage Wand Vibrator, £140

What we like
  • Luxurious design

  • 10 vibration patterns and 20 intensity levels

  • Travel lock feature for convenience

  • Extended run time of 300 minutes

What we don't like
  • Higher price range

  • Not fully waterproof

Key specs

RRP on writing: £140 | Material: Silicone | Colour: White and rose gold | Power: Rechargeable | Dimensions: Circumference - 7.75 inches, length - 13.5 inches | Run time: 300 minutes

Our verdict

For those who enjoy the finer things in life, the Le Wand Rechargeable Massage Wand Vibrator is the ultimate luxury choice. With its sleek rose gold design, it's not only a pleasure to use but also a stunning addition to your collection. Featuring 10 vibration patterns and 20 intensity levels, you can customise your experience to ensure you reach the big O.

It comes with three easy-to-use buttons that help you control the rumbly, toe-curling intensities. It even comes with a travel lock, storage case and a USB charge cable, making it eco-friendly and suitable for trips away from home.


Best for body massages

ROMP Flip Rechargeable Wand Vibrator, £40

What we like
  • Suitable for anywhere on the body

  • Made completely of silicone

  • Lasts up to 60 minutes on a single charge

What we don't like
  • For external use only

Key specs

RRP on writing: £40 | Power: Rechargeable via USB | Material: Silicone | Waterproof: Yes | Settings: 10 functions - six speeds, four vibration patterns

Our verdict

For a massager that isn't just for sex, the ROMP Flip is a great choice for individuals in search of something more versatile. It's petite in size, and fits in your pocket for on-the-go vibes anytime, anywhere. Simply press it into yours or your partner's aching muscles, and soothe them with six speeds and four vibration patterns. Or, for some cheeky solo play.


Best for couples

Ann Summers' Rechargeable Power Massage Wand Set, £85

What we like
  • Versatile

  • Can be adapted to suit needs

  • Complete customisation

What we don't like
  • Powerful vibrations might be too much for some

Key specs

RRP on writing: £85 | Material: Silicone | Power: Rechargeable via USB | Settings: Eight speeds, 20 vibrations

Our verdict

Experience intense orgasms with this versatile, completely customisable set. The smooth silicone heads are perfect for tense muscles or sensual clitoral stimulation.

This set includes three attachments: anal beads, a textured clit stimulator, and a rabbit attachment. With eight speeds and 20 vibration settings, use the user-friendly panel to customise your experience completely, which is why it's on our list of the best wand massagers. Don't forget water-based lubricant for ultimate enjoyment.


Best double ended wand

Vive Enora Double Ended Wand, £70

What we like
  • Suitable for both external and internal pleasure

  • Target both clitoris and G-spot

What we don't like
  • Only comes in black

Key specs

RRP on writing: £70 | Material: Silicone | Waterproof: Yes | Power: Rechargeable with USB | Settings: 10 vibration functions

Our verdict

Last, but certainly not least, is the Vive Enora Double Ended Wand. As the name suggests, this sex wand is made from silky smooth silicone and has a smooth, rounded end for external stimulation and a shaft-shaped end that's been specially designed to target your G-spot. It's the second wand massager on this list that offers both clitoral and G-spot stimulation, so, it's easy to see why it's earned it's place on our roundup of the best wand massagers. It can be used alone or with a partner, and is easy to get going with just a click of a button. Don't forget your lube!

What is a sex wand?

A sex wand, often referred to as a wand massager or vibrator, is a specialised adult toy engineered to deliver intense pleasure through clitoral stimulation. These wands are specifically designed to facilitate the attainment of powerful and deeply gratifying orgasms. Whether you're indulging in a private moment of self-pleasure or exploring exciting escapades with a partner in the bedroom, these devices prove to be versatile companions.

Many of these pleasure-enhancing tools boast a user-friendly grip design, allowing for effortless handling and manoeuvring. Moreover, they come equipped with an array of vibration settings, ensuring a customised experience tailored to your individual preferences. From gentle caresses to more vigorous pulsations, the range of vibration intensities caters to a spectrum of desires, making each encounter uniquely satisfying.

Read next: Find the best vibrators, according to Mumsnet users

What makes a good wand massager?

The best wand massagers are distinguished by their range of vibration and speed settings, which cater to the diverse spectrum of moods and desires you might experience. With variety at your fingertips, you can seamlessly tailor yours and your partner's experience to precisely match your current cravings, ensuring each session is effective.

A hallmark feature of many high-quality wands is their incorporation of a flexible head. This design element empowers you to reach those pleasure points that might have otherwise remained inaccessible. The flexibility of the head gives precise positioning, allowing you to target specific erogenous zones with accuracy and ease.

Considering the modern demands of mobile lifestyles, certain wand massagers are designed to be exceptionally travel-friendly. These models are conveniently USB chargeable, eliminating the need for batteries and offering the convenience of recharging on the go. This thoughtful design ensures that your pleasure remains uninterrupted, even when you're on the move.

For those who prioritise discretion, the market also offers meticulously engineered designs that give minimal noise emission. These quiet achievers allow you to indulge in your desires without undue attention.

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Can you use lubrication with the best wand massagers?

Best wand massagers for orgasms

Whether you can use one of the best lubes with your toy depends on its waterproof properties. Numerous models are engineered to be waterproof, like Ann Summers' Moregasm+ Wand, which opens the door for the use of lubricants, oils, and balms without worrying about causing damage.

If waterproof, your toy has been made to withstand contact with liquids. If splashproof, however, take care with fully submerging your massager in baths or pools.

Can you use one for insertion?

Most of the best wand massagers are designed for clitoral stimulation, so if you’re in the market for something that can penetrate you may need to shop around. Some toys come with separate attachments but for the most part.

There are, however, double ended wand massagers available that offer both clitoral and G-spot stimulation, like the Vive Enora Double Ended Wand.

What is the alternative to the Hitachi wand?

Ann Summers’ Self Love Massage Wand vibrator is widely considered one of the best alternatives to the Hitachi wand, as is the Le Wand Rechargeable Massage Wand Vibrator. Both offer powerful vibrations, versatility, and a cordless design, making them a popular choice for those seeking a similar experience to the Hitachi wand.

Can you get attachments for the best wand massagers?

Absolutely, you can find various attachments designed to enhance your massager experience. These attachments come in different shapes, sizes, and textures to cater to different preferences.

They can offer added sensations, such as targeted stimulation or even penetration, depending on the specific attachment. Just make sure to check compatibility with your specific model before purchasing any attachments.

What are the benefits of using a wand massager?

Best wand massagers

Using a wand massager can offer numerous benefits both in and out of the bedroom. Firstly, it provides intense and focused stimulation, making it an excellent tool for clitoral pleasure. The powerful vibrations can lead to intense orgasms and heightened sensations.

Additionally, the best wand massagers are versatile and can be used on other erogenous zones like the nipples or even for full-body relaxation. They also allow for easy control of intensity, allowing you to customise your experience according to your preferences. Moreover, wand massagers are often designed with ergonomics in mind, providing a comfortable grip and ease of use.

How we chose the best wand massagers

Recommendations from real Mumsnet users

Mumsnetters have certainly put sex toys through their paces when in the bedroom, with many Mumsnet users sharing their good and bad experiences.

So we firstly sought out the trusted opinions of Mumsnet users to get their feedback on the best wand massagers they rate that can be used solo or with a partner. We wanted to see what models they recommend for their design, effectiveness and versatility.

We always look out for negative reviews, where our Mumsetters have called out products for poor quality or lack of effectiveness.

Expert opinions

We also cross-check our recommendations with the best wand massagers praised by sex experts to ensure we were bringing you the best products that are rated across the board.

Authentic consumer reviews

Finally, to bring you our definitive list of the best wand massagers we thoroughly investigated genuine, in-depth customer reviews on retailer sites such as Ann Summers, Amazon and Lovehoney, and independent sites to get broader consumer experiences regarding the products on our shortlist.

Why you should trust us

We work hard to provide unbiased, independent advice you can trust. We do sometimes earn revenue through affiliate (click-to-buy) links in our articles. This helps us fund more helpful reviews like this one.

About the author

Kat Romero is a writer and journalist with over a decade’s experience in the industry. Hailing from London, she has become experienced in scouring the market to find the latest and best products that are worth your purchase. 

Away from her desk, Kat can be found consuming far too much coffee and spending her weekends with her toddler and partner - soaking up the sights of London and sampling anything new and exciting that has opened up within walking distance.

About the editor

Rebecca Roberts is a writer, editor, and content marketing expert hailing from Leeds. Here at Mumsnet, she commissions, writes, and edits to bring parents content designed to make life easier. After birthing and breastfeeding two babies in two years, Rebecca knows first-hand how hard it can be to reignite intimacy. From condoms, to lubes, to sex toys - she’s on a quest to find the best ones, with the help of Mumsnet user recommendations.

Beyond her role as an editor here at Mumsnet, Rebecca can be found balancing life as a working mum of two toddlers and when she’s not at her desk, you’ll likely find her at a local playgroup, in a nearby coffee shop, walking the dog, or hiding from her neighbour as she attempts to buy condoms during her weekly “Big Food Shop”.