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Don't miss: MNHQ editor, Rebecca, puts Ann Summers' Self Love Massage Wand to the test. Read her full review here.

When you think of sex toys and all things fun and exciting in the bedroom, you think of Ann Summers. This wand is beautifully designed with a purple silicone body and splashed of vintage gold. 

It’s a versatile toy as it has multiple functions and intensity settings. Reviews say it’s ideal for self-pleasure or for fun with a partner. It’s easy to clean with the brand’s Buzz Fresh Wipes and it comes with a cotton bag, which offers discreet storage in your bedroom.

Some reviews have claimed that this is a bulkier item compared to some toys, so it may not be the best for travel. But the five-star reviews make it clever that if your objective is a powerful orgasm, you’re going to achieve that in seconds.

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This choice on our list of the best wand massagers may be small, but it’s also mighty. The design offers you a comfortable grip and it has a flexible neck that’s designed to hit every spot. With its powerful motor and easy-to-use controls, this sex wand with wand vibes is a must-have for anyone looking for a satisfying experience.

There’s a choice of three-speeds with different intensity levels to suit beginners and your liking, plus the battery-powered option means you don’t have to worry about having a mains outlet for charging. Additionally, this device has different patterns of vibration modes to enhance your experience.

It's worth mentioning, though, that this one is not for anal use so if that is your thing, it may not be the product for you. Some reviews claim it’s also very noisy so it’s not ideal for discreet use. But for less than £20, it’s a great price and the glowing reviews suggest it’s truly effective. So, if you're looking for a wand toy, this product may be a great option.

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This is one of the best wand massagers that does what it says on the tin. Essentially, it's the key to achieving even more, stronger orgasms - and as the many glowing reviews say, those orgasms are likely to be deeper and more powerful. Plus, with its long battery life, you can enjoy the wand's benefits for longer periods of time.

Best of all, it’s waterproof so you can use as much lubrication or oil as you wish. It’s also quieter than some wands so it’s perfect for discretion and there’s ten vibration settings to suit your desire. So, this waterproof wand is perfect for those who want to enjoy their toys in the bath or shower without worrying about water damage.

The one downside is the higher price point compared to other options on our list, but if you have the money, we suggest this is one investment you won’t regret.

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There’s no denying that £150 is a huge amount to pay for a sex toy and definitely out of budget for many of us. But if you are looking to splurge on something that will bring you pleasure, this wand by LELO is a safe bet.

Best of all, it’s cordless so you don’t need to worry about buying batteries or plugging it in to work. Plus, it looks good and customers say the design feels like silk on the skin... Earning it a place in our best wand massagers roundup!

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Once again, we know that £150 is a huge amount for one of the best wand massagers. This is also mains-powered, which many may see as an inconvenience. However, this high quality option is great for clitoral stimulation as well as body massage and the silicone head is easy to wipe clean. The design is modern and sleek and there’s a good choice of speed settings to ensure you reach climax quickly.

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Amazon is an ideal place to find affordable and useful products that can be delivered right to your door, and for those in search of a new massager - the Oliver James vibrator is a perfect purchase. Not only is it an affordable price but it comes in a variety of colour options to suit your taste.

The design of this one is flexible so you’re guaranteed to hit those hard-to-reach spots. It’s also great for alleviating sore and stiff necks. Some reviews have complained that it’s very noisy, though, so that might be worth considering if you need to spare your blushes.

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This toy is great if you want to ramp things up a bit. As the product description says, it packs a mighty punch.

If sex toys haven't worked for you in the past, this may be the one to convince you as reviewers say they achieved orgasms in seconds. The one downside is that some reviews say even the lowest setting is still highly powerful, which may not work for you if you’re sensitive down there and want something a bit more gentle.

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This is the perfect mini to take with you on weekends away. The small design means it’s easy to pack and the design’s built-in grip makes it so easy to use. It’s also easy to charge using USB, which means you can ensure it has power no matter where you are in the world. 

One thing is for sure with this wand. Despite its small size, it’s a powerful tool. Maybe too powerful for some reviewers, who said even the gentlest vibration was too much for them. 

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If you want to elevate your experience, this design from AUPLAY is heated, is double ended and it can improve the sensations and your pleasure. It’s also quick to heat up which is ideal for those times when you just want to get stuck in.

The only downside is some reviewers say the vibrations are on the gentle side. Perfect if you prefer something softer but not ideal if you need that power.

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This mini option from Ann Summers' Moregasm+ range is ideal for easy storage or taking it away with you on a naughty weekend. The design features a curved head, which is designed to reach a wider surface area and increase your pleasure. It’s waterproof and features 10 vibration settings, ideal for any preference. Despite its small size it’s powerful and effective. 

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For those who enjoy the finer things in life, the Le Wand Rechargeable Massage Wand Vibrator is the ultimate luxury choice. With its sleek rose gold design, it's not only a pleasure to use but also a stunning addition to your collection. Featuring 10 vibration patterns and 20 intensity levels, you can customise your experience to ensure you reach the big O.

It comes with three easy-to-use buttons that help you control the rumbly, toe-curling intensities. It even comes with a travel lock, storage case and a USB charge cable, making it eco-friendly and suitable for trips away from home.

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For a massager that isn't just for sex, the ROMP Flip is a great choice for individuals in search of something more versatile. It's petite in size, and fits in your pocket for on-the-go vibes anytime, anywhere. Simply press it into yours or your partner's aching muscles, and soothe them with six speeds and four vibration patterns. Or, for some cheeky solo play.

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Experience intense orgasms with this versatile, completely customisable set. The smooth silicone heads are perfect for tense muscles or sensual clitoral stimulation.

This set includes three attachments: anal beads, a textured clit stimulator, and a rabbit attachment. With eight speeds and 20 vibration settings, use the user-friendly panel to customise your experience completely, which is why it's on our list of the best wand massagers. Don't forget water-based lubricant for ultimate enjoyment.

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Last, but certainly not least, is the Vive Enora Double Ended Wand. As the name suggests, this sex wand is made from silky smooth silicone and has a smooth, rounded end for external stimulation and a shaft-shaped end that's been specially designed to target your G-spot. It's the second wand massager on this list that offers both clitoral and G-spot stimulation, so, it's easy to see why it's earned it's place on our roundup of the best wand massagers. It can be used alone or with a partner, and is easy to get going with just a click of a button. Don't forget your lube!